I need advice on what to do with my relationship situation please?

Question

I have two kids with a woman, who has cheated on me on several occassions over a 4 yr period. About a year ago, April has appeared in my life, we've talked and really got to know each other and she has always treated me the way I've always treated the mother of my two kids, she has kids with some guy that goes out on her, but my situation is I don't know what to do, cause I thought a couple months ago, there was nothing there, til yesterday, she showed that she'd give him up for me. I am so confused. 3 scenarios could happen. 1st Scenario: I go with April and I get my kids and their mother doesn't want anything to do with them, or 2nd Scenario: I go with April and she gets the kids and she never lets me see them again, or 3rd Scenario: I go with this woman of my kids and am never happy, just mainly doing what I can to make sure my two kids are happy? what would you do?? WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Answer 1

you need to do what is best for your children it sound like you
dont need either of these women in your life, the first she may
be the mother of your child but she has no respect for you
and the second one she want to get back with you because
things are not good at home but if she get with you then she
will leave as soon as thing get calm, and that not good for
your children to be in that kind of situation. time for you
to move on and live your life with you and your kids, right
now time to be by your self . love will happen for you
but these women are trouble.

Answer 2

Stay with the mother of your kids. Raise your kids right.

If April will give the father of her kids up for someone then when things get difficult then she just might do the same to you in the future.

good luck

Answer 3

So confusing. April sound aprilfooooooooooool day. Wait for April'07 and get fooled.