I know I still love him very much. I can't live without him. I and him had a time very romantic. Says me: Can I forgive him?
2007-01-28 16:04:40 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, forgiveness isn't as important as what's next for you? If you don't mind a guy who will yo-yo between you and other ladies, then jump right it. Just don't delude yourself as to what kind of creature this guy is.
2007-01-28 16:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a behavior.
It is not a feeling, it is not an obsession, it is not an addiction, but we often mistake these things for love.
Betrayal is not an act of love. Fear is not an act of love.
You can live without him. You don't have to. You can take him back. Don't be surprised if he commits another unloving act of betrayal.
You can forgive him. That's a good thing. Forgiveness is accepting what happened and not allowing it to continue to hurt you. You can forgive him and not take him back.. You vcan also take him back and not forgive him, but beat him over the head with his actions in the future. You can do a lot of things. You have many choices. None of them really have much to do with love. They are more about fear (of being without him).
good luck
2007-01-29 00:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋