Do you regret your divorce?

Question

Do you sometimes wish that you worked harder on problems before it was to late. If you could go back would you?

Answer 1

Not in a million years. I wasted a year of my life after finding out he cheated on me trying to salvage that sorry excuse of a marriage, and now I am happily married with two beautiful children.

Answer 2

It depends.. I've seen a lot people doing it and the reason is because the two of them give themselves time enough to grow up and to be more mature. After all the anger is gone, there's a time where you find peace and that can reunite again. Most of divorces happens bc of consistant conflicts, others due to adultery. Everybody makes mistakes and the question is.. will you accept this person back with no bad feelings or flash backs? If there was true love in between the two, there's a great chance.
Now, there's also a lot of people that only get to know the other person after they live together in the same house, which was my case. She not only tried to push me away from my son, but also turned into a real Bi*#$ and that's why I don't regret, I know I deserve someone better than that. Although I'm glad she was a part of my life, because she gave me a son who I Iove above everything else on the face of the earth.

Answer 3

I was married for 3 years the first time.I divorced him with no regrets and if I could go back I would never have married him in the first place.At the time I thought love was about being abused and treated like garbage and taking it.Then I became a christian and God told me that that is not love and to get out before it's too late.He was very abusive,even went so far as to drain all of the brake fluid out of my car so I would crash and hopefully die.Eleven years later I met the man of my dreams and married him.I was shown how to love and what it is so when I married again it was a healthy marriage one that will last forever.Everybody makes mistakes every now and then,thats why they put erasers on the end of pencils.

Answer 4

What I regret about my divorce is the loss of all those years. The discombobulated bouncing back and forth our children have had to accept for several years now. No, I would not ever go back. He and I are two very different people. When he walked out of my life several years ago, he basically handed me my life on a silver platter......and although I am alone still I am much happier without him than with him.....as he is as well, I'm sure.

Answer 5

I did go back, worse mistake I ever made, even got remarried just to divorce again. I'd not make that mistake again. I think most people that go through a divorce wonder if their making a mistake and maybe some are but there's no way of knowing.

Answer 6

No regrets. I know I tried everything I could to make it work. I wouldn't go back. I'm so much happier now than I was in a marriage that made us both miserable.

Answer 7

I don't regret the divorce, but I do regret all the pain and ugliness that went with it; especially with the children.

Answer 8

No one should regret a divorce.

Answer 9

well, i wasn't married.. but i was close. yeah, i do wish i could go back. i am convinced that if circumstances were different, we would still be together. but they weren't. they were what they were and we broke up for a reason. it kills me. i would go back. but honestly i don't think it would change anything. in the end, i would still have a broken heart.

Answer 10

Nope not at all since he had abandoned us with no intent of ever coming back... There was no working to the marriage and God told me to let him go .... You cannot make someone love you or want to be with you and according to the bible i had grounds!