I've apologized to my fiance about the wrong that i have done. I still love her and i still want to marry her. How long does a person "wait" or give them "time" to do what? Now don't get me wrong, maybe ilm being a little hot headed because i'm mad, but isn't possible that a girl can be doing a little hedging because she knows that the gut is being very sincere, and open. Also, if she feels as though she does want to marry no, does she give the ring? What is a guy to do or better yet, does the gut still have a chance?
2007-01-28 15:27:53 · 2 answers · asked by Sigbee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to give her the time and space she needs to heal and get past the pain of this... She will come back to you after a while i believe when she is ready to....
2007-01-28 15:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what wrong you did. If you broke the trust in your relationship, it may take some time to regain that trust. It may take some time for her to sort out her feelings, and you don't want to rush her. Think about how you would resolve an issue after you are married, to keep the relationship going and bring each other happiness. That is what you need to be doing now, as part of your commitment to her. Do either of you need the help of a third party? Is there a parent, a priest, or a counselor who can offer advice? Act out of love, not impatience. Is there something you can do to show you are sincere - more than just saying it? Put yourself in her place and think about how she might be feeling. If you don't understand it, talk to someone - your sister, your mom, your aunt. Good luck.
2007-01-29 01:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by UpanishadMorning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋