and he told me he didnt say anything before,because he was scared of loosing me as a friend.as we were talking,i looked at his eyes,and i saw love.he really loves me.he apologized like a hundred times,for not coming over friday night.friday nights,we rent horror movies,and watch them until we both pass out in the living room.he also told me that his ex was always jealous of me.because he wouldnt spend the night with her,but would rather sleep on my carpet in the living room,and me on the couch.it was cute,he chuckled when he said that.should i give it a try?he is a great guy,responsible,and my best friend in the whole world.its crazy,i feel like im part of a soap opera.and i hate soaps.i really need advice on this.hes my best friend,i dont know what to do next.
2007-01-28 15:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's what makes a great marriage.....friendship!!! If you have feeling for this man then go for it!! My husband is my best friend and I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. I think love is right under your nose and you just don't realize it yet.
2007-01-28 15:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are comfortable with this man, you are friends, you like him and he likes you. What's there to question?! It sounds like the ultimate courtship before dating. I'm excited for you both! Don't act any different, continue with your tradition of movie night, and just let things happen naturally. How wonderful this sounds. Yeah! I really think this is going to work! Have fun!
2007-01-28 23:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it - after 5 years of being best friends, with the nicest, kindest and most caring guy I had ever known we fell in love and now 18months later we are still going strong.
2007-01-28 23:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the first move. I know you want more, but it will only mean more if he makes the move to a relationship. Just keep being you, but for it to work. You gotta be sure he's gonna take that next step.
2007-01-28 23:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. Now go for it. What are you waiting for? Get off the computer and GO. Best friends are hard to come by. And so is a good mate.
2007-01-28 23:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself.
2007-01-28 23:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by asdunne2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! it sounds so romantic ! go for it ! go for it ! go for it ! best of luck !
2007-01-28 23:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋