i just need someone to talk to...
2007-01-28 14:58:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just be a friend.. b/c that is what she is going to need right now. Especially at 15. Help her out.. you can look things up for pregnancy and give them to her. Help her find out what she needs to know. Just be a friend! Be with her when she needs you.
2007-01-28 15:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by sleepyincarolina 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're caught in a pretty awkward situation right now. On the one hand, you want to be loyal to your friend and not tell anyone about it, but on the other, I'm sure you're worried and you think someone needs to know. As of now, I would talk to your friend, tell her it's not the end of the world to be pregnant. Make sure she is taking care of herself, eating properly, and not doing anything that could harm the baby, such as drinking, smoking, or doing drugs. The most important thing right now is to make sure that baby is safe. Let her tell people in her own time as long as she is taking care of herself. There will come a point when her belly will get bigger and she will no longer be able to keep it a secret. I would also have her visit Planned Parenthood in your area. Good luck with your friend. Just be supportive and let her know that she always has you if she needs you.
2007-01-28 23:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by super_kick_chick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to be there for her, I got pregnant when I was a teenager and I didn't share it with anybody not even my best friend for 3 whole months, it was a horrible experience, just going through it alone.
So take it as a compliment that she has confided in you, and just put your ideas, your feelings aside, because she is the one going through all the hormonal change and body change... Just listen to her, spend time with her, and don't judge her, because we all make mistakes, and please... help her through this, but don't let her consider an abortion. A baby is a lot of work at 15, but there's always adoption, but please don't consider killing this baby, remember this will be your niece or nephew (if you are super close best friends)! and you will love him/her so much when it's born!
Be strong for your friend... remember it could've been the other way around :S , we all make mistakes, even after trying to be responsible..
2007-01-28 23:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by C a R L i T a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your friend hasn't seen a doctor, she needs to. ASAP. For health reasons and also so she can find out how far along she is. Birthright centers are all over the world. They are centers that will help make decisions about what to do. They can help get you medical attention for free and they are very descreet and keep everything confidential. It helped me when I wasn't sure on whether or not to keep my baby. You can log onto www.birthright.org for more info. They even help with adoption if needed. Good Luck and God bless.
2007-01-28 23:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by natsirt 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You talk this over with her, and tell her she NEEDS to see a doctor
Doctors will keep things confidential if the paitent asks them to.
But, eventually, they will find out.
i had this same problem when i got pregnat with my son Andrew. I told my parents first. (i was 16) and I found it much easier than trying to keep it from them.
Tell her she must tell someday, so why not the present. If she does not, then you must speak up.
2007-01-28 23:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would talk til I'm BLU getting her to adopt the baby out!
At 15, girls see babies as dress-up dolls.....
But they AREN'T!!!
They puke & crap all over your favorite blouse....they cry all night when you want to rest up for the dance....they cost $40 a week for formula unless you breast feed them....in which case they wake you every 2 hours to feed them.
It is NOT all fun & games...
2007-01-28 23:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
same as other people here said let her knwo that you are there for her i am sure she is lucky to have you as a friend on a count that she may be scared to tell someone else (her parents)?? but be sure when she needs someone to talk to her you be sure to be there ( you may be her strength
2007-01-28 23:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by danielle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u neeed someone to tlk to my email is latin_babe_sexy_69@hotmail.com and second off u need the be there for her now more then ever she needs u she is going to go through a ruff time and needs someone she could trust
2007-01-28 23:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by la colombiana 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he best thing you can do is be there for them. you dont have to tell anyone unless she decides to something harmful [such as forced abortion, running away..etc]. otherwise it is her job to tell someone.
2007-01-28 23:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you will be there for her no matter what...
2007-01-28 23:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Pink Puppy 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋