you see we've been together for 9 months and and never had any sex whats a good way for a gay male couple to make love (the sweet romantic way)?
2007-01-28 14:43:15 · 9 answers · asked by christian playa 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Easy, start off by kissing and deciding "how far to go" and then let your bodies and mind's (and especially hands) roam free. Also, be sure not to 'judge' over what you or your boyfriend may do. Set your ground rules from the start (as far as don'ts) that way no one feels bad over something the other one FINDS UNCOMFORTABLE. This also keeps it a loving experience!
Have fun and remember to trust each other!
2007-01-28 15:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd start by taking a shower together. It lets you both get to know each other's bodies and you don't have to have any actual sex. You can just feel the warm water and your two warm bodies rubbing affectionately against each other. You may or may not also want some music. If you can both fit in a bathtub, you can try the same thing with candles and maybe rose petals scattered around the tub with heart-shaped soap. Then after you both have bathed each other, you can dry each other off and head toward the bedroom. There maybe give each other a massage and then move on from there to actual love-making. Afterwards, maybe the two of you can cuddle and fall asleep in each others arms.
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This is just my one suggestion, but each couple is different and romance, like love, is in the eye of the beholder.
Check your local library or book store for love books, I know there are a few out there for gay couples.
2007-01-28 23:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by dnnzak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to take it slow. There's no need to rush anything. Just take things naturally. If you feel that you're both having trouble initiating things, I think it's a good idea to try to talk about it first. After all, if you can't talk about it, you shouldn't be doing it. Maybe just start by having an honest conversation about your experience, what you like, what you don't, what you want to try. And of course, be honest about your own boundaries, and respect your partners. Good luck.
2007-01-28 22:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the old fashioned way. start out kissing and take it from there. i have had friends over the years who have had varied interests in sex. i have tried a couple of them but i prefer what they like to call "vanilla" or what i call normal or regular sex. if the regular kind dosnt do it for you experiment. there are lots of websites that will explain things to you.
2007-01-28 23:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by jason s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure if you should be seeking answers to that question. i think that is something you should discover with your mate. i applaud waiting so long, in this day and age most are jumping to the next level far to soon. and although you can always hold hands, you can't ever go back to "just" holding hands.
take it easy and take it slow. do what feels right and discover each other.
2007-01-28 22:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start small and work up - touching each other's private parts, mutual masturbation, oral sex, then anal sex. Only take another step after you a comfortable with the one before it.
2007-01-29 00:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Marakey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do like Wendys... do what tastes right. By knowing each other and experiencing u both will know the things u like and dont like also the thing u should and shouldnt do.
2007-01-29 14:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...After a date when you're home alone and laying on the couch cuddling. -_^
2007-01-28 23:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the butt
2007-01-28 23:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by mistytownsend18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋