if u had a bad childhood.?

Question

does that make bigger a chance the child growing up become a angry person or a hater?

Answer 1

No, it doesn't. People have very varied reactions to having a bad childhood. Some do end up angry at the world. Others end up dedicating their lives to helping others. And there's a whole range of people in between the two extremes.

It's just that we usually hear about the extremes.

Answer 2

I dont think it matters.If you grow up in hell but you have a good heart you may be a little jaded but it shouldnt be an excuse to be a hateful person.Once your grown the past is the past and life is what you make it.You have to embrace each day no excuses I have also seen cases where kids had everything money loving parents and they were mean cold hateful and arrogant. Its your heart that matters and beleive when I feel hateful towards certain groups because of the way they take over the gym and act so crappy I pray for God to help soften my heart.It helps alot to be aware of your hating and stop it in its tracks because it does no good for anyone.I once had a freind who twice on two seperate occasions had been molested as a child by a male relative,These where two awful days in her life and yet she used those two days as an excuse for being a lousy mother,being an alcoholic ,losing her kids and doing meth.I had to ask my self isnt it her decision to let it effect her this way?What about kids who are molested for years?Some of them go on to be good parents and successful people others are crack addicts ultimately you can chose to submit let your problems crush you and throw away your life or you can fight the hatred and bitterness by recognizing that its poision and its toxic to you and everyone else.

Answer 3

You will always be the person you want to be, once you reach 18 the choice is yours and if you live in a bad home environment and you are under 18 call the local child protection authorities or police. Get out of there if you are not safe.

Answer 4

I don't feel so.... I was molested for 6 years as a child... it stopped when I was 12 and finally spoke out... The one thing it did to screw my life up was make me feel that I had to have sex with guys to make them like me... So I had my fair share of partners as a teen.... I ended up getting pregnant on purpose with my boyfriend when I was 15... But that was actually the best thing that happend to me.... After the birth of my son (i was 16 then) I worked extra hard at school... graduated top of my class... held down a job and my b/f joined the military my junior year (1999)... we then got married in 2001 and are still together and happy till this day... so I don't think a rotten childhood can predict any future behavior... But, I do strongly believe that children who are not diciplined and told to respect people end up growing up to be the idiots of our country. Kids should be taught by their parents to respect everyone and everything.. .unfortunatly, feel like society is going down the drain with raising kids...

Answer 5

I had a bad childhood, and because of it, I am a stronger individual. I took my experiences and learned from them. I guess it depends on how the individual takes it. Some can become angry, i guess it depends on what happened, and how old they were.

Answer 6

it depends on the person, what happened and how they came through it. my girlfriend had a very bad childhood and because of this she is the most loving human being. others just go right off track i realise but i think it has more to do with how the person deals with it.

Answer 7

that all depends on the person i had a bad childhood and i turned out ok

Answer 8

it depends on whether or not they chose to make something better of themselves as a result of their childhood

Answer 9

either that or they dont want that to happen to their family, so they are good people, but that is rare. so mostly the person would be hateful

Answer 10

As you mature, you will realize that your parents were not perfect. Forgive.