Although im bisexual, i do like to meet other people on the same gender mostly as friends, but possibly intimacy if i feel comfortable with them.
has it been hard for you to find someone like that?
guys, you are free to answer too if you want.
2007-01-28 14:34:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Mindy, taking in account that I live in California, that there are plenty of plces to meet other women such as:
the beaches,
the church,
the parties that your employer might host
the end - of - year party that you can find in any given 5 star hotel.
That is the first part and the second part is confiding in the person and that will take some time. A friendship, or even an intimate friendship, takes time. Be prepared to do some investing in yourself because the results will be plentiful in the long run.
2007-01-28 15:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by soar_2307 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to my best friend who is a female, it is very hard for her and anybody to meet anybody who is of the same sex but you have to realize that once you trust that "somebody" she will
not disappoint you because a friendship is worth a lot and if you want you can take it one step more - having her as a lesbian.
2007-01-28 23:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by conde_c_b 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very....im from reading pa and there are no gay outlets or anything i have to drive to philly allentown or harrisburg to try and meet new gay ppl.....i know most of the ladies in my area and ive been there and done that lol....you want someone casual to date and hang out with...the perfect relationship..no serious feelings just fun....yes im having trouble finding that myself...
2007-01-29 15:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by Hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is hard.
I think that I'm bi and have a boyfriend (he's fine with this) and I fear that I'll never know what my true orientation is because I'll never be able to experiment.
2007-01-28 22:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes it is . most people i know that are lesbian i went with or i just wasnt interested.the rest are just friends and girls i flirt with or sleep with.
2007-01-29 11:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by SKITTLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is tough. Let your instincts be your guide, and have patience...You will be rewarded. :)
2007-01-29 00:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Susan Jeffries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....and I'm a dude...
2007-01-31 14:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by dj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋