whats make amn or woman cheat how we can stop cheating?

Answer 1

In this day in age men and women will always cheat. I myself don't cheat so I really don't know the TRUE meaning behind it, but I'm just guessing from my married friends the reason they do it is because their wives don't treat them nice with all kinds of care and love. Or else there is not enough sex in the relationship. Some guys do not like big women so they want to find a skinny women to have fun with etc, etc, etc.

And to stop cheating. WOW! That would be awesome if everyone could do that, but I don't think it will happen. It all depends on the love that is shown with in the family.

MJ

Answer 2

It's primarily biological...see http://news.yahoo.com/s/livescience/20070102/sc_livescience/howwomenpickmatesvsflings.

Simply put, men naturally have sex with more women to "spread their seed" and have more power/influence. This is similar to the ways men have a tendency to want to compete more in sports and, often, in the workplace. It not only gives them a sense of fun, but also accomplishment...in the same way men are often called studs when they have sex with many women while women are called sluts.

Which brings me to why women cheat. Women have two biological jobs in sexual and relationship affairs:
1) To make a baby with the best genes possible (see above yahoo article)...which usually means mating with an aggressive/competitive man often characterized by strong facial features resulting from high testasterone levels.
This man is likely to cheat, but also more likely to have strong genes.
2) To take care of the kid. Since a woman often can not feel secure in doing this she finds a less competitive looking "loyal man" without many dating options so she knows he'll stay around and care for her kid.

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The result is often this

"Loyal" men chase after women and offer them gifts and such...the women designates these guys to be their "provider" while she dates another, more exciting and competitive guy.

Meanwhile men are often very competitive and get annoyed about things like their girlfriends not working as hard as them, being fat, their inability to show their dominance...and seek to fill this insecurity gap by seeing other women.

In addition men react to cheating women to gain back their dominance by cheating back, women cheat on men openly to "put them in their place" as providers, and so on.

It's a nasty, exploitative system.
????How to guard against this?????

As a MAN, you have to realize QUALITY is ultimately more important as quantity. Yes, you should always let a woman know you have other options if she treats you badly and puts less effort into the relationship than you.
If you find yourself cheating because your woman is fatter than you, for example, make it a point to be in shape yourself and tell her you want to live a healthy life and get good endurance sex and it shows she's uncaring and somewhat lazy if she does not to match your effort...and that you will react if she does not show changes. Again, you need to be the leader...ironically statements like the above will ultimately make her more attracted to you because she'll know you are the strong one and you're pushing her and ultimately her kids to stronger, healthier lives.

However, on the other hand, you need to be in the same or better shape than her physically, able to give her many many orgasms a night, deal well with her friends...and make it obvious you are as strong as any guy no matter how much "stronger looking" that guy seems. Be strong and, no matter what you look like, it will eventually push past any BS prejudices your woman may use for your "being weak" or "not being popular enough".

Woman who are very sexually satisfied and know their man will stick up for himself and her in any situation are unlikely to cheat.

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WOMEN, meanwhile, also have to realize QUALITY is ultimately more important as quantity.
Just like with men seeing more people of the opposite sex does not make you better at sex, more productive, or give you "prettier babies". If the man or men you are with look good and have "inborn skills" but have no discipline to develop those skills they will be most often beat by the guys you may say "look weak".
I have a HUGE, naturally muscular friend with a strong/modelish face who is naturally an excellent dancer...but he considers giving his woman more than one orgasm per session "too much work"...needless to say almost every other guy I know can do better than that.
And, guess what, the same guys who have the discipline to work hard to excite their women are both great lovers and great caretakers. Instead of playing suck-up and doing things like putting up excess money all the time, they help their girlfriends or wives (and eventually kids) become strong enough to handle things themselves REGARDLESS of how "cute/gifted" their genes are.


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Just remember, in the end of the day, male or female, someone who can give you ultimate happiness in life will have high standards for yourself and themselves...and that kind of passion and determination far trumps any "gene benefits" or feeling of popularity or productivity cheating may give.