when is a good time to loose my virginity.
2007-01-28 14:30:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am a boy as well.
2007-01-28 14:54:44 · update #1
When you are ready...if you have to ask, then you are not ready. I would highly recommend that you hang on just little longer. When you do decide...use caution and condoms!!!!
2007-01-28 14:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some will say when you get married, but if that is what you believe and want, then you shoud; however, if that is not a belief of yours, then you should have sex whenever you feel comfortable. Don't let your friends convince you that it is some wonderful thing, because that is based wholly on your first experience, and it can be a good or bad experience. Don't have sex to just have sex. Make sure it is your decision as well and not your partner's. That you really want to instead of just trying to please them. I'm 17 now, and had sex for the first time when I was 16 and thankfully I'm still with that person 1 year and 8 months later. I'm not saying the person you will still be with the person you had sex with for the first time, but it should be something you won't regret.
I both regret and don't regret having sex before marriage. I wish, if my boyfriend isn't the person I end up with, that I could give my virginity to my husband. But then at times, I know I love Shawn, and I realize I don't regret my decision. Just make sure you are ready for it, and not just giving it away, but the emotional part of it too. Also, remember to be responsible. Make sure you use a condom, and if you know you are going to consistently have sex, talk to your parents about getting on birth control as uncomfortable as that might be, it's the mature thing to do and one of the first signs that you are ready to accept the responsibilities of having sex.
2007-01-28 14:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by loveablegirlybg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that things can be different for boys when it comes to virginity, the way I see it is if your not ready for children or the possibility of some sort of disease or another I would wait. Don't get me wrong, birth control and condoms are a great way to keep yourself safe, but sometimes things go wrong. Birth control and condoms both have been known to break or not work right. You can get a girl pregnant even if your using protection, birth control doesn't protect you from disease at all, and condoms though much safer can break, leak, or even have a tiny hole when you buy them. So if your not ready to be a daddy, I would wait.
2007-01-28 15:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by lil_momma_of_two 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there !!!
You should feel blessed you are so young, full of life. Life is so beautiful and everything comes at its due time my dear.
You should stop and realize that virginity is like a precious diamond, we must treasure. Do not fall into the peer pressure of having to do anything because you reach a certain age.
Respect your body, your soul, and keep your virginity until you marry.
The choices you make today will pave your road for tomorrow, we are the arquitects of our lives.
Never allow others to presurre you, or make you get involved in something you may regret.
Youth is so beautiful, honey use this time to grow spiritually, to learn, to prepare yourself for when you are an adult. live each day with joy.
wishing you the best
love light and peace
2007-01-28 14:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're mature enough to take on the responsibility and the consequences of engaging in a sexual act. Regardless of how cautious you are, there is no method of prevention against STD's and pregnancy that is absolutely fool-proof. So before you start playing house, make sure you're properly prepared for parenthood. Neither your parents, nor your sex partner's parents should be burdened with the consequences of your screw=ups ( pun intended).
2007-01-28 14:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by tee_nong_noy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to ignore those oozing hormones but just play it cool. Don't be pressured into having sex just because people around you may be doing it. You're not an outcast or a weird one. It may be hard to go against the flow but remember there's this special someone out there who is exclusively for you. Wouldn't it be nice to save yourself for this someone? It would be absolutely amazing if you do it first time with your soul mate. Have faith, he will come your way one of these days.
2007-01-28 14:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by bethcelis88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you have your education and can enter into a responsible relationship. If you are a girl, be very careful. A young girl with a baby has effectively ended a chance to advance herself in life.
2007-01-28 14:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its when ever you are ready for it. losing your virginity is not as ok i lost it sord of thing. its more of a feeling to it. make it special. and also make it safe. you don't want it to be that at your first time you got a sexually transmitted disease nor that you got pregnant nor that you were just used for dat purpose cuz then rumors of being a hoe might appear. so give it time when it happens it happens never plan to it. at the correct moment its going to happen
2007-01-28 14:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by jbhennessy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get older and finish college and is dating the woman you want to have 84 kids with. Then get MARRIED and lose your virginity.
2007-01-28 14:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are married and out of college.
2007-01-28 14:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by koyaanisqatsi12 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋