I met a man about 2yrs ago at an out of town event and we hit it off instantly. we live a ways apart so the relationship consisted mainly of 8hrs a day spent instant messaging, phone calls during our drive home (we work the same hrs), and weekly meets in hotels in between our states.
a year agoI found a job in his hometown and had plans to move when i found out he not only had a child, but he was living with his girlfriend. I ended the relationship immediately, and ended up telling her about the plans he had been making with me.
Recently he has contacted me again, telling me it was me that he loved, that the past few months without me have been torture, that he cant live without me, that the only reason he is with her is for the sake of the child, and if i will move to his town, he will leave her &marry me. But now this guilt has come over me and i feel as though i owe it to his girlfriend whom he has a 10 year old child with, to tell her the truth what a scumbag he is...what 2 do
2007-01-28 14:26:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is a dirt ball who just wants sex. Promising to marry you sometime in the future if you meet a certain set of circumstances is just a ploy to get you closer to him. Don't fall for it!
You don't have a responsibility to share this information with anyone, I am sure she is aware who she is dealing with and in the end it is her choice.
If you want him to stop calling you, just threaten him that you'll inform his girlfriend, and that should get him to leave you alone.
2007-01-29 00:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hes no good. Once a cheat always one,Tell her,he could have a disease
2007-01-29 09:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋