Unlikely roomate...?

Question

OK, you and your husband are divorcing and neither of you can afford to live on your own due to kids tuition and other debt. How do you make the most of this situation? I don't need a whole bunch of answers telling me I can move here or there, trust me this is whats best for us financially right now, I would like advice on how to make it thru an already difficult time and live together. The only thing I manage to do is want to be away from home a lot to avoid the situation so any other suggestions would be great.

Answer 1

do what you have to do for the time being and save your money to get yourself and appartment........

Answer 2

I tried this with my now ex-husband, but it was short-lived. He moved to the other bedroom, but we still crossed paths way too much, and the problems that brought us to divorce did not go away. I'd say you could try it, but it's difficult to make it work if you've already decided you can't be together . . . and if there are negative emotions toward one another. It's best just to make a clean break and work on the debt after the fact. It's not easy, but emotionally, it was the only way for me to move forward.

Answer 3

Try living in separate rooms of the house and try keep different hours. Also you could try to find a room mate or a friend that you could stay with until you are ready to find an apartment or house. Save your money. Good Luck

Answer 4

It'l be difficult, because you guys r still in the same house. Even if you're in different rooms, you'll still see each other often. I would suggest moving with friends or family. If u r in the same house with him, you're bound 2 have sex with him again. Or u can try 2 work the relationship out.

*Good luck*

Answer 5

work opposite hours.

Answer 6

been there. done that. it didn't work. it only makes moving on even harder.