A crush on a cousin that you may find attractive, same age as you at the time?
I remember being younger , around maybe 4-12 and a lot of my friends who had a cousin they thought was "so cute" and they would talk about them. We grew up and now we wouldn't dare have a crush or try to do anything with a cousin. I remember I had a crush on my boy cousin when I was very young, he was like a best friend to me. Now, he's more like a brother and those days are just gone.
Maybe not a crush but an admiration of some sort.
2007-01-28 13:57:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I AM A GIRL.
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2007-01-28 14:04:43 · update #1
I notice you ask a lot of strange questions... why?
2007-01-28 14:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's so, so natural. In fact not necessarily only when young. There's a whole wing of my family where marriage to cousins has been the norm over long periods of time and many upper class families try to have it this way (the Rothschilds for example had it as a mandatory policy).
They're around but not too close, they're familiar (which is a form of intimacy) they're safe, you know they're family, you usually have to do with them only on holidays or at play time, and you can talk with them without this being construed to easily into a sexual thing, in fact everybody in the family wants the cousins to hang out with each other and be friends, all at a time when it's often hard to have contact with the opposite sex.
2007-01-28 22:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's natural to actually have a crush on anybody when you're at a very Young age. It is usually not a crush but an admiration for the person.
2007-01-28 22:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by condrad_111 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I remember being 7 and my 9 year old cousin was the most handsomest guy around. I was totally smitten and he and my brother would run away from me! I knew it couldn't go anywhere, but it was fun. We're good friends now. It seems like a natural thing to me.
2007-01-28 22:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by luna 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have a question are you a boy or a girl.... =//
Anyways it's natural I had a crush on my cousin Sam (for a day) My dad told me I couldnt marry him so i gave up.
2007-01-28 22:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by corette 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Hell yea! I have a cousin, I first met him around 16 and he was like 18 or so and he was so fine lol. If I wasnt his cousin I would date him. He has so many girls after his ***.. I was laughing at his *** after he told me he caught an STD though. Guess thats the price you pay for looking good :D...
2007-01-28 22:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think it's sick but there is this girl at work who is in puppy love with her younger cousin. He gets jealous of a co-worker who flirts with her and jokes about getting married. He nearly flipped at the bar when the manager mentioned it, or so I heard.
2007-01-28 22:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by wife of Ali Pasha 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure...but i think i used to have a crush on my cousin...
2007-01-28 22:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by teacherspet866 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
i guess that's up to you
there is no such thing as "normal" in the world we live in...
we're all unique!
2007-01-28 23:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
it is natural , dont worry about it.
2007-01-28 22:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by sup 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋