What makes your marrige stable ?

Question

I am just wondering what does your marrige make stable ?

I bet you don't cheat :)


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Answer 1

Trust and Honesty

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I'm not married, but I live with my boyfriend of three years...

You have to be able to trust eachother, and honesty is a MUST.

Don't fight over small stuff that doesn't matter... before you start an argument, think about it... "Is this really going to be worth fighting over?"

Have fun! Laugh often together.

Have great conversations... my boyfriend is one guy that I just love to talk to... he's very smart and can keep me interested in his conversation.

Do fun, romantic things for eachother every so often. Every once in a while (not too often, otherwise I'd be spoiled!) I'll get flowers delivered to me at work... it just absolutely makes my whole week.

SUPPORT eachother, even if you don't necessarily agree with the other person.

And yeah, like you said... don't cheat. That's pretty obvious.

Answer 4

What makes my marriage to my wife stable is open & honest communication, honestly, trust, also for my wife and I what's made our marriage stable is that we put each and each others feelings and needs before our own. Also we compliment each other, and not only telling each other that we love each other, but we show it, by telling each other what we appriciate about each other. Plus just doing things like working at the housework together. Just those little things.

Hope that this helps.

Take care and God Bless

Answer 5

Hi there !!!!

Communication, trust, respect, fidelity, faith, being sincere , wise yet at the same time jolly like a child, knowing when to be quiet, give space,
Not asking more than what we can give
Marriage is sacred, and should be treated with such care
We should love with all of our heart and soul, give ourselves complety, without losing the essence of our own individuality and soul
We become one with our lifelong partner, and hand in hand we live each day to it;s uttermost ,
gaze at the stars at night,
enjoy our time together
listen to music
play, have fun, explore this vast universe of experiences and enjoy the ride

Love light and lpeace

Answer 6

I've been married going on 5yrs, I guess what makes it stable is we hardly ever argue, money isn't a issue, we share checks when I need something I get it and same goes for my husband. We are best Friends and jealousy doesn't come between us. i think what makes us so close is the fact he works weekdays and I work weekends so we hardly see each other. So we miss one another so much when we have time to spend we spend it wisely..

Answer 7

I read all the answers up to this point and I'm beginning to think marriage should be outlawed for anyone under 30. Children!!!! Children are the reason for finding a mate. Children are the glue that makes a good marriage.

Answer 8

Honesty.
Communication.
Loyalty.
Understanding.
Respect.

Answer 9

The fact that we both have a relationship with God and that we do our best to have the marriage that God describes for us to have in the bible. and also a good thing in keeping a stable marriage is not telling eveyone your business and issues give those to the Lord only

Answer 10

Our degree of respect and consideration. After work,were home with each other and our kids. Were partners,not two people living together with seperate roles. Were a team. I dont have to worry about him going to bars after work,we go together and I dont nag him for not taking out the trash. Its about compromise,their is no "I" in love.

Answer 11

First is Honesty and Trust. Then everything will follow. Giving and taking is important too. And being able to talk over a problem before you shut your eyes to sleep. Never sleep any arguement over.