did i do the right thing by?

Question

my mom and me dont get along at all im a teen and she doesnt let me do anything at all. like go to the dance or to a friends house or date I try to tell her i hate it and i have no social life but today things hit the fan........we were sitting at the dinner table and she said i wasnt going to any dances ever and when i got my car all i could dont was go to school and they would have a gps put in the car so they would no... i put my fork on the plate and left to my room where i shut my door..... then they tell me to get out there ......so i got and she's like we give you everythin you could want me:i have no social life
Mom: your friends are always calling you
me: because they think i died!!
mom: tthats not true
me: everyday i try to have a life but you keep me in this hell
mom: wow
pause
mom: if your unhappy you can live with kenny (real dad my dad now adpoted me)
me: i rather hang myself and go to hell then live with that bastard
mom: your dad and me will see where u can go

i dont like the way this is i always have been an angry hurt person because of what y real dad did but having my mom not trust me because she did bad things doesnt help me...............should i go say im sorry or what do i do

this isnt right i hurt everyday

Answer 1

Yes U must be a better person & apologie so U can go on with Ur life. Mom is being over protective & only wants the best 4 U. U know there's no hand book on raising Ur children. We learn as we go just as U learn as u grow. Try 2 cut her some slack. U'll better understand it when U have Ur own kids. She is looking out 4 U. I know it doesn't seem like it now. She's being a parent (that's rare these days) & not trying 2 be Ur best friend. Like a lot of parents do. One day U will thank her for the displine. I have a 18 & 20 year old sons. I was hard on them. There better today 4 it too.

Answer 2

my parents are like that too, i know how you feel. well they are right, and theyre just overprotective. someday when youre older you'll appreciate that they never let anything happen to you and you can deal with your 'social life' on your own. for now, just respect them and show them that they can TRUST YOU. i guarantee they will give you more freedom.