I had a real good friend and she stop talking to me with no reason. I have send few e-mails over the last six month and send IM here and there. She does not respond to me, so should I gave up trying to talk to her or here and there send that e-mail and IM to see if she respond to me. I just feel that one day she will need to talk and by knowing I still think about her, I might be the person she needs to turn to. I don;t know maybe I have my hopes to high.
2007-01-28 13:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I say that if you already make all that effort you describe above it is time for you to cut it loose and keep going. Obviously she/he wasn't that much of a friend after all. So if I were you I would make a last attempt stating that after this one you'll not bother any more and wishing the best for him/her.
2007-01-28 13:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by wanna_help_u 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think if she hasnt responded back to you in any way that maybe it means she really doesnt want anythin to do with you. I think if you stop emailing her and IMing her that maybe itll get her thinking,that oh why did they stop emailing me or IMing me. Theres so many people in this world you're better friends with. Why let this person get to you she obviously isnt a good friend if she didnt care the same for you.
2007-01-28 13:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by njlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My chum became interior the same concern many years lower back and that i felt undesirable that i could not do some thing, because in truth, there is no longer some thing actual you may do to end it. What you may do is be there for her, convenience her, be the perfect chum she's ever had and perchance raise this self harming sensitively. My chum stopped doing it and she or he's fantastic now. She'll end doing it is going to genuinely, only be there for her.
2016-10-16 05:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she stopped talking to you maybe she feels ashamed to be your friend. That isn't a true friend. Maybe she thinks you did something against her and doesn't want to talk to you anymore. Personally I wouldn't chase after her unless she had some things of mine. It's possible that she may talk to you again and if she does, ask her what took her so long.
2007-01-28 13:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real good friend wouldn't just stop talking to you. Stop trying to contact and if she needs you, she will call....see how you feel then.
2007-01-28 13:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to get hold of her. The reason I presume she hates u. And without knowing u contacting her might lead her to b nasty and make ur life distrub.
2007-01-28 19:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her in any of the emails if maybe you fended her in some way??? or send an email asking have I offended you in some and ? and if I have could you let me know or. Or ask should I stop contacting you at least let me know....
2007-01-28 13:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by jane h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation and always find it is better to start fresh with new people.
2007-01-28 13:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by my_evil_twin_41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋