The first time I had sex I got no pleasure and i still get no pleasure what so ever. Whats the problem?

Answer 1

change the men your doing it with or ask you r mom y u cant get no satisfaction lol or mabe your just ugly

Answer 2

If you are a woman, it may take a while for you to know what is pleasurable.

You should explore your body to see what is pleasurable to you.

Also, don't just rush into the intercourse but do foreplay.

If you have a tilted uterus, you may need to position a pillow under your butt. Move it around to see what is the most pleasurable position.

Answer 3

You are with someone who is only concerned about his pleasure and obviously is doing nothing to give you pleasure. It may be that he is inexperienced or that he is inconsiderate. Try www.vibes.com and purchasing some videos and trying some of the toys that may help you find the pleasure that is there.

Answer 4

There is one of three possible problems here.

First, your partner may not really be considering you as a partner but as an organic masturbation toy. If he's not paying enough attention to you, why bother with him?

If by pleasure you mean orgasm, that's because THE organ for sexual pleasure for a woman is the clitoris, and it's nowhere near the vagina.

Then again, have you ever learned to orgasm? If you haven't, if you don't know how to please yourself, how can you possibly help a partner to please you?

Answer 5

You are probably just not in the right mood when you have sex, or not comfortable at that moment.... Woman need to be completely comfortable and not be thinking about anything but that moment in order for them to obtain pleasure in sex.

Answer 6

I'm assuming you are a women... most women need direct and prolonged stimulation of the clitoris for pleasure to be great enough for enjoyment. Try that it may help

Answer 7

Try Reva's answer, I think you canlearn from it

But a good partner will give you enough satisfaction . .

Answer 8

Maybe you're not relaxed enough?

Answer 9

Try oral