I never used to be, but the older I get the more disgusting it seems. Is this normal?
2007-01-28 13:09:56 · 27 answers · asked by jamie_0778 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone has their own feelings about sex but maybe you have to ask yourself if soemthing happened recently to turn you off towards sex.
Sex is a natural and fun thing to do so being grossed out may not be the most healthy thing if you are in a relationship.
2007-01-28 13:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It definitely isn't normal, but you're not the only person grossed out by sex. I can't remember what show I was watching (I think it may have been Dr. Phil or Dr. Drew), but there was a young woman talking about how kissing was gross to her, and how she had never wanted to have sex because she thought that would be worse. However, I do agree with the others. You should go see a doctor, and maybe you can figure out why it is that sex grosses you out so much.
2007-01-28 21:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Licia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
May I know how old you are? If you are very old or feeling very old or not physically fit or simply don;t have the right partner then perhaps that's the reason why you are feeling grossed out by sex. But I have a feeling you're still young and very healthy and the reasons I can think of why you feel that way about sex is either you had lots of bad sex before with the wrong partners and for the wrong reasons or you are just really a romantic at heart who could not find satisfaction because you are still looking for your soul mate which you are unaware of.
The best sex ONLY comes with love, remember that. You haven't tasted the best yet if you haven't been in love.
2007-01-28 21:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by bethcelis88 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It might seem really weird but there are lots of people who are grossed out by sex. It can be from a bad experience or just from the way you were raised. A lot of the time when you have been having it pounded into your head that sex is bad and blah blah blah you start to actually feel that way and you get the feeling you are doing something wrong. I don't know exactly why you are grossed out but don't feel alone there are lots of people who feel that way old, young, and in between.
2007-01-28 21:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by buggiebuddy 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow--what a bummer; I feel sorry for you. Sex with someone you love is one of the greatest things in the World. My guess is you've never had a good lover, and even though you say "the older I get..." I think you are still very young. I'm guessing around 16 and you've never been with a guy who knows what he's doing. Teen boys with their skidmark undies and zits and Nacho Dorito breath ARE gross, I'll give you that. But I'm in my late 20's and absolutely LOVE sex with my girl.
2007-01-28 21:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I understand what you mean. Much to my boyfriend's dismay. I too, sometimes feel disgusted with sex. BTW I am VERY much in love with him. However, I hear, often, that it's just a phase, and that some women will experience phases of enjoying and wanting to have sex often and then suddenly find sex unappealing for awhile.
It also depends on any type of sexual abuse/harassment experiences if any.
Honestly, I feel that sex sometimes is just plain dirty (not the kinky dirty) and the cleaning ritual that follows is too much of a hassle. I mean, the fluids, sheets, stains, smell, etc etc. And sometimes, I find sex shameful altogether (this comes from a personal experience as a child that I do not feel sharing). Most other times i'm just to tired/lazy/stressed out to have sex. I'm sure many women can agree with me on that one.
Sometimes my libido is low, and sometimes my libido is very high (lucky him).
I don't think you're crazy, but it will definitely put a strain on a relationship.. You could always seek a "sex doctor".
2007-01-28 21:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if it's normal but I am the same way anymore. twenty years ago the thought excited me, but now it's a "I really don't want to do this" type feeling. I think perhaps part of it is I am unhappy with the way I look and the other part is been there done that type situations. Aint nothing going to happen that I havent done a hundred times and I dont want to devote the energy.
2007-01-28 21:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by bluebettalady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believev that this is normal to a certain extent. First of all how old are you? Another important question being have you ever been in a serious relationship? This could be matter of inbalanced hormones or chemicals or such, or this could just be that you haven't found the right person that's invoked these feelings inside of you. Well good luck, and feel free to email me whenever. =]
2007-01-28 21:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by lilmissyme778 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you've gotten the wrong ideas from pornos or something. The media does make it seem a little disgusting but the way it is portrayed is completely unnatural. Sex is a natural and beautiful thing.
2007-01-28 21:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by max 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was so grossed out with sex a couple of years ago, I honestly thought there was something wrong with me. When i divorced my ex though and found a wonderful man that i am VERY attracted too.... i realized.. hey there is nothing wrong with me at all, and sex is awesome, it was just the company i was keeping... lol!
2007-01-28 21:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋