GAH theres this girl. she talks about me all the time. her and her little friend want to start stuff with me, but in high school u can get arrested for fighting. well these girls are all talk and they wont fight. and its gettin on my nerves so bad. i cant stop thinkin about what i should do. when people dont like me and want to start stuff with me i constantly think about what to do. can somone help me find a way for her to leave me alone and make her go away and stop making my mind worry so much!! i dont want to fight her. i just want her to stop talkin about me and leave me alone.
2007-01-28 13:09:07 · 9 answers · asked by lalaloser!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
move on with someone else...go on a date and ride a rollercoaster...
2007-01-28 13:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My favorite way of getting people to leave me alone is ask them if they're flirting with me, because sometimes when you like someone you try to bug them as much as possible. So asking them if they're hitting on you, when they really don't like you makes them back off.
Another way is to just zone out and stare at them. It's you getting mad and reacting that's making them keep doing what they're doing.
Another good way is to freak them out, by being overly friendly. This day and age, it's weird when someone is nice no matter what you say to them. AND you can laugh about it.
I personally laugh at people who say stuff to me that I don't like and just agree with them and then say, "Ok now that you have something to laugh over will you go away? Come back tomorrow and we'll do this again." Or "If I tell you it's true will you go away? Even though it's not, at least we'll be onto a different topic and THAT will be something."
2007-01-28 21:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur not suppose to worry really, maybe at your young age you can learn to accept things you may deal with your whole life. you may get so good at ignoring and brushing things off your shoulder, things like this will never bother you or make you think twice again. DONT FIGHT, dont solve nothing.
Not that I'm telling you to sell out but go talk to your V-Principal or Counselor if it bothers you. No one should ever be uncomfortable about going to school, its not fair to anyone.
2007-01-28 21:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Capo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to take a stand. I'm not talking about the physical stand either. Ask one of her friends what the issue is or even ask her. Fighting hardly solves anything. try to talk this out and maybe you will find what you are looking for. Good luck and take care kiddo.
2007-01-28 21:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Skinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A as hard as it sounds, you need to ignore her and all her annoying ways. The only reason she is bothering you is because it annoys you.
Good Luck.
Find a hobby.
Find a book.
Find other friends.
2007-01-28 21:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Oilfieldtrashwtx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let these bully's get away with it talk to some one in the office and get them in trouble for it, try to record what they say, if you need to get the police involved, this is harassment, and kids should not have to put up with this crap! your there for an education,not to get harassed, good luck!
2007-01-28 21:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup yup i feel you. Lol i would either get a friend and talk about them and or just teach them a nice lesson :D I would go for cheeck bone first ;D
2007-01-28 21:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the principal. they will make sure that she stays away if you ask and there is enough reason. just report her to the office.
2007-01-28 21:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignor them, they hate that, after a while thr gana leave you alone. or you can do wat i did, a girl wanted to start somthing with me so i warnd her, im wlling to fight that *** if she starts it, cuz if she does thn i can finish it and thats gana be self defence, she gets in trouble, that finished it =)
2007-01-28 21:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by LiNDA DO =) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋