A 35 year old man works with a 19 year old woman/girl from a very traditional family. Man and and 19 year old are friends. In a moment of weakness, 19 year old succumbs to man's sexual advances, and 19 year old is impregnated. Would it be the right thing then for man to marry 19 year old? How does a 35 year old marry a 19 year old? What would be the right thing to do? Remember, this is a completely hypothetical question, so please keep nasty comments to yourself!
2007-01-28 13:04:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A real man would ask her to marry him. Then the desicion will be totally up to her.
2007-01-28 13:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man should be responsible for this child. As for the girl if she is not in love and he isn't either then no marriage. They can raise a child with out being a couple or getting married. I think only if they are in love then marry. Maybe even live together for a while. Seek help with friends and family too. If neither of them wants marriage or the baby then they could put the child up for adoption. So many couples would love to love and raise a child.
2007-01-28 21:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two don't love one another, it doesn't make sense to marry.
The 19 year old has to decide if she's ready to be a mother, otherwise she should consider abortion or adoption.
If the woman decides to keep the baby, the 35 year old should be responsible for providing financial support.
2007-01-28 21:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by Calisoxfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends my ***. A 35 year old man and 19 year old girl???? Nice try. You wanted it and now you have to pay for it. All hypothetical of course.
2007-01-28 21:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just like a 35 yr old would marry a 35 yr old there is no difference. If you both are right for each other, just do it. Always remeber that you can not help the way you feel, but you can help your actions
2007-01-28 21:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how he feels about her and vice versa, the age thing could be a problem but not necessarily my husband is 14 years younger than I am and no issues there. The most important thing is to step up to the plate for the child. Support, love and active roll in the childs life. If it does not work out with the mother then the child is the most important thing
2007-01-28 21:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by fluffyflo_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is love, the age difference does not matter, they should get married.
But if there is no love, marrying him is out of the question. Next is whether to keep the child or abort it. This will be very complicating as religion, child care etc.. has to be considered.
Talk to a counselor or the church elder for the best solution.
Good Luck
2007-01-28 21:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all the man needs help and the 19 yr old needs to understand that men come and go and not the old ones really have it all together if you know what i mean...she need to find a man about 10 yrs younger!!
2007-01-28 21:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by machele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if its a shotgun wedding yeah hed have to
but in this day in age, it would be normal for the man who impregnates a woman whom he just wants to fool around with, to leave and never be seen again
2007-01-28 21:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you really love her the age gap doesn't really matter.
If she is pregnant that you should be elated to have a child with her ..it will be the best experience of your entire life
2007-01-28 21:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by lovephoto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋