i cant fake this anymore??help??

Question

so i know you guys are going to say this is such a childish question but come on im only 17.....so here it goes

i think (know) i am in love with a guy friend who said he doesnt even like me like that....so what am i supposed to do? This is all i can think about and tears come to my eyes just thinking about him and remembering all our memories..

i cant let him go...ive tried so many times. ive even tried not to be his friend but we are still friends.....

this guy means so much to me.......you guys dont even know the heartache i feel right now

my question is what do i do?

Answer 1

You sound like a sweet person. If he doesn't realize that, someone else will. Move on.

Answer 2

When I was younger I fell in love with my friends boyfriend. We were great friends, he spent more time talking to me then he did my friend! I thought I was sooo in love with him and i thought of nothing else. This went on for a couple of years. He finally moved away and I did get over him and now that I look back I am so glad i did. By the time we were 20 he was going bald and getting a bit chubby. He also had a reputation for being a total player. I am not saying your friend is like this, what I am saying is sometimes we look back and breathe a sigh of relief that we didn't make a mistake in getting with a person who turned out to be better in your fantasy then in real life.

Answer 3

how long have u loved him? if it is true love you will feel it with time, and like you said you are only 17, what can you do. just dont stalk the guy, give him space and if u play hard to get maybe he will start liking you.....i dont know what else to tell you.

Answer 4

I know this must hurt you alot.Im sorry to say this but it is just part of growing up.I t will get better you will see.

Answer 5

let him go....i know it'll be hard for you but its for the best.

Answer 6

with time.....it will pass....