the babies daddy does not what his unborn kids and so he married his ex fiance and now i am in a really bad spot i am getting out of the military and haveing family problems at home and i had a friend that want to marry me and take care of the kids but now he is not sure and he is saying that if its not his he wants nothing to do with me or the baby and so that was my back up plan and i am scared to do it on my own even though i know i can i just dont want farthers in and out of my kids life any advice would be nice thankyou
2007-01-28 12:29:36 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am pregnant with twin first time mommy
2007-01-28 12:43:21 · update #1
Hi Sweet heart I totally understand you I am a single mother who made plenty of mistakes trying to find a decent father for my girls but in the end all I did was add more heart ache to them My girls realize that Im here and STAYING that people may come and go but the one thing they CAN count on is ME being a single parnet is hard not impossible Good Luck
2007-01-28 12:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Forsaken Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a mommy is hard. It sounds like you may already have another child at home? You may be raising your child on your own. You do what you have to do. You can file for child support, in fact you NEED to. This isn't going to be easy for you but you can do it. Don't go looking for a father for your children. Go out looking for a good man that loves you for you and is ALSO good for your children.
2007-01-28 12:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you CAN get child support nd a paternity test. HE has to be the father or pay the price and could go to jail for it GOOD LUCK
2007-01-28 12:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋