wife hiding something?

Question

she deletes her call lists on her cell phone often. I confronted her on this and she got defensive. am i paranoid or is she hiding something?

Answer 1

Check her phone bill on-line for numbers. But as my Grand Mother once said . " A suspicious mind is a guilty mind "
Maybe you are the one who is hiding something.

Answer 2

I was married to a woman just like you. To know she deletes her lists, you must check her phone often. If you see a number you don't know, do you go crazy about it. My ex did, and now she is my ex.

I did this because there were many time there would be a wrong number. But, she would assume it was someone else. Who she thought it was, I don't know. So, I deleted the lists all the time. Better than dealing with her and her accusations.

Finally, I had enough, and was on my way. Your wife will end up doing the same thing.

Answer 3

Whether I was up to no good or not, I'd be ticked off if my wife checked my call history all the time, looking for something.

If you're innocent, you don't need a defense, and if you're guilty you don't have one. Either way, getting checked up on is going to make a person defensive. She may be hiding something now, but you keep this up, and she definately will be hiding something from you later, because you've drove her nuts. All you're doing now is showing her the limits of what you check for, and if she wants to hide something from you, it will be a piece of cake.

Answer 4

Its hard to say without knowing more of the nature of your relationship. I delete my calls everyday just because I am weird about having all that info on my phone if I lose it or it gets left behind somewhere. Other people I know do it becuase they are hiding something..
Most cell companies allow you to check your bill online and see what calls are being made, if you really feel like you have something to doubt..
Of course.. I will tell you.. if your relationship has THAT much mistrust, your relationship is doomed either way..

Answer 5

I ALWAYS delete the calls on my phone often. I'm not hiding anything. It sounds like you are super paranoid! Unless you have reason to believe she is cheating give her the benefit of the doubt.

Answer 6

here u go all u have 2 do is call her cell phone co and ask them for a itemized list but if ur know where u wife is 90% of the time except when u argue and she doesnt act strange u might b ok other than that how long have u been married for?????

Answer 7

Shes hiding something definitely.

Answer 8

If she gets defensive, she's hiding something.

Answer 9

My girl friend does this as well. She told me it lets her know when a new txt message come through on the phone. Just ask her whyas it bugging you, if she cant give you a straight answer with out thinking, beware.

Answer 10

Its hard to say, Keep your eyes open if she is hideing something she will slip up sooner or later.