because the man im with is being gay and acting like that is such a bad thing. meaning that he dont want to and if it did occurred he would be all upset and up tight.
2007-01-28 11:55:16 · 8 answers · asked by dikdabutty56 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
he is a prat then if ask me
2007-02-05 03:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend was happy and a little scared although we were both only 19 when I found out I was pregnant and he was in college and already working full time but still if he is that weird about it then you shouldn't be with him cause the fact is even if you take every precaution you can still end up pregnant and if he doesn't want kids or anything then maybe he should really think about keeping it in his PANTS!!!!! and if he's a adult then he needs to grow up because there are guys out there that are 15 and 16 becoming fathers and they don't act like that... sorry to hear he's being a jerk!!
2007-02-05 12:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by crazy4u21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are weird! NO OFFENSE TO MEN!!
They are probably thinking that we are also. LOL!
But anyways... it really depends on the guy.
Some are all for the "baby" thing... while others aren't.
While there are those that their are ready and anxious to have a baby... there are those that think that their man enough to have sex and act like 2 year old when the word "baby" is mentioned!!
Don't get me wrong... some women are the same.
If he is going to be insensitive and act like a big dork about it... you are going to have to see if he's the right man to be the father of your children.
I understand the need to want to be a mother. But if you want to have children... while he doesn't... then your have to do something about it.
whether that be to leave him or tell him to grow up!!
Tell him that if he wants to be with you.. then he needs to realize that you want children and that whether he likes it or not he either needs to step up or take off.
I hope that all works out for you. Good Luck!
2007-02-04 23:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by ♥~Momma In Love~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a douche bag of a boyfriend. If you want kids or are pregnant dont be with him. My fiance is thrilled that we're trying to have a baby, a few times we've had "false" alarms and thought we were pregnant but we weren't :(. he's willing to try everything with me and take care of me and make sure I am eating right and we're taking care of ourselves, he's even gone out and bought some baby onesies. Who knows maybe your "man" may change his mind once you go into labor and he sees the little bundle of joy you two have made together. Good luck and hopefully his veiws change.
2007-02-05 01:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was very excited both times, but we were trying for it both times.
If your boyfriend is acting like that, then you have some big decisions to make.
If you really want kids, you need to decide whether or not you can stay with him, knowing he doesn't want them, because if it did happen, he may leave you.
It's really up to you, but if you want them and he doesn't, you may need to move on. It would hurt a lot, but it's better than having a kid he doesn't want and then the kid suffers, too.
2007-02-04 15:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably not be with him anymore if he is that insensitive. I wouldnt have a baby with him if i was you. He needs to grow up.
2007-02-03 20:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by luckylady_dani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he should have thought about that b4 sex with you or used condoms..
2007-02-03 06:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by cheree m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was beside himself...
2007-02-05 17:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋