even though it was necessary..don't you feel a little bit bad..??
2007-01-28 11:15:09 · 18 answers · asked by × 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes, although I usually relent after a little while, depends on the circumstances but sometimes you just have to, you have to look after yourself and the people you love - if people treat you like crap then you need to get them out of your life
2007-01-29 09:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a close relative that I have always wanted to be close to, and I have tried for years but nothing has done any good.
I don't recall doing anything to cause this reaction, but I have
just decided today, I will no longer try. Do I feel bad--not about what I've done, but about a relationship that never existed in the first place. It is very strange that I saw this question today.
2007-01-28 11:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have shut out, yes and there is a temporary feeling of sadness and questionability, did I do the right thing.... realization came afterwards when logical reasoning and common sense broke through, if that makes any sense to you.
2007-01-28 11:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-28 11:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah. a friend of mine who i thought felt something for me but was actually "using" me to gratify herself and tell her everything will be okay regardless of the situation. obviously when i started to wise up and stop pretending that things will get better she stopped talking to me. however, when she wised up i could get over how she treated me, and how i acted as well. to me both of us were far from friends since we were so self-absorbed with our own wants and needs.
she has been wanting to "make peace" with the whole situation and i allowed that because i truly want to be friends, start over type thing, but i can't look at her and feel normal. so i keep my distance, only talk in cyber space and never in life, when i see her i'm condescending or i just look over her, acting as if she isn't there, doesn't exist. it feels nice at that moment because it, to me at least, justifies how she treated me for 3 years and the feelings that i had to bottle up and deal with. but afterwards i feel horrible because i know what she is feeling and that she is trying to be my friend and i'm just being an *** by making it more difficult. my emotions toggle between those extremes and its a pain, not getting anything done or resolving an issue, just prolonging the pain.
2007-01-29 09:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Flabbergasted 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I shut my mother out last May.She is pure evil and treated my daughters like rubbish.I have not got any remorse,and don't feel bad.She stuck her middle finger up at my youngest.Good riddance to bad rubbish!
2007-01-28 12:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My cuz just completely cut off things with one of my best buds who she used to date. She said it was just too hard to text occassionally, but she doesn't really know what she wants. Its a family trait. She feels awful. I don't know what to tell her, she has to do what she has to do. But it is hard.
2007-01-28 11:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by juniper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but at the time it was the right thing to do.
2007-01-28 11:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Papa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I tried to, so I could stop thinking about him. Didn't work out that way, and so he wasn't too happy when we didn't see each other often...and I felt horrible.
2007-01-28 11:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i shut out my son's dad because he is a dead beat dad and doesnt pay child support and i dont feel bad at all
because it is his LOSS
2007-01-28 11:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by rev_stephanie_manson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋