a freind of mine says its rare, but not unheard of. here is how it came up.
i've been dating a girl for three months or so, and she was a big partier. she still goes out about every other week with her college freinds - sometimes to movies and stuff, but sometimes to a club. a fraind asked me if she carries and a condom, and i was like, for what? and she said, just in case?
i was offended and said in case of what?!?!?!? she says she's not hooking up with anyone else and i trust her.
but she and another freind of mine agreed, when a girl goes out - and she's drinking - and she bumps into one of those guys with serious game . . . . its better to be prepared in case he isn't, so she won't be bringing anything extra back to me - like hiv. in fact, my one freind has been with a guy for three years and said she wouldn't go for such a guy now, but when she was with him less than six months . . . . who knows? And of course, if it was Brad Pitt or something . . .
so i'm like dang - maybe she should be carrying a rubber. Of course, I wouldn’t want to be with her if she were out hooking up – but if she did, how would I know, and wouldn’t it be better that she didn’t make a mess of me in the process? what do you think?
2007-01-28 10:53:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I read the first line. And no.
2007-01-28 10:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
lmao what exactly is the question? Listen you've gotta trust this girl, otherwise you'll end up pushing her away anyway. Personally i can't say i've ever met one of these irresistable casonova's and dont really think they exsist. If someone wants to cheat they will regardless of whether the guy looks lie brad pitt or not.
Trust her!
Oh and use a god damn condom yourself then you wont have to worry about her giving you anything.
2007-01-28 11:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Me ... I got confused after the second sentence, but I am probably one of those guys.
Make a girl laugh, and talk about her, rather than yourself, and you're halfway there. A winning smile, an easy charm and a slightly wicked grin also does the trick.
I only go home alone if I choose to. It's what I was born to do
2007-01-28 10:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Bob Danvers-Walker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No unless the girl is a Ho Ho HOR!!.
Look if I were you I would use the rubber at all times that is the only way you would be assured that your girl doesn't bring back any nasty stuff or you will be screwed for life and no other girl wil want a guy who carries any deseses. ( No glove no LOVE)
2007-01-28 11:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. And any guy who says he can is full of sh!t. Any woman who carries a condom when she goes out for a "just in case" situation, means that girl is looking to possibly hook up.
2007-01-28 11:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just to be honest, i actually know a guy who can practically get any girl he wants. hes cute and he knows it, which is what makes him less atractive to me. he is very confident, and alot of girls around here like that. i for one hate the cockyness. i find it really unatractive and imature for a guy to hook up with every girl, just cuz he can.... now the situation with your girlfriend. if she is gonna go out and get drunk enough to sleep with some random guy everytime they look her way, even if she does have a condom, she prolly aint worth your time. it dont matter if shes drunk or not, if your in a relationship with some one and you sleep with someone else, its cheating
2007-01-28 11:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If someone is going to give it up because they are drunk, they probably didn't have much restraint when they were sober. Alcohol isn't an excuse to sleep around.
If your friend takes rubbers along with her it's probably because she's gullible to fall for any line, hook and sinker.
That doesn't mean your g/f is like that.
2007-01-28 11:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
deffinetly a big no.all i can say is if you are really considering to get her ready for a just incase she dont seem that trust worthy or you have doubts maybe its a realationship that shouldnt be i mean how many actually prepare your lover to cheat on you thats nothing but crazy!!
2007-01-28 11:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by crickitt r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it took a while to understand everything. I think I got the right answer for you.
EVERYTIME YOU HAVE SEX - WITH ANYONE!!!
WEAR A CONDOM AND USE A SPERMICIDE.
There is WAY to many diseases you can get; ALL BAD, without protection. DO NOT listen to your partner tell you that "there has been no others." The RISK is not worth it.
2007-01-28 11:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO... every man will eventually meet his maker. If your girl is THAT EASY.. maybe you should be looking for something else...
If you are truely happy and in a stable relationship you wont cheat.. drinking isnt an answer its a problem!
2007-01-28 10:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The guys who say they can get practically any girl he wants is a big fat liar.
Do you trust your gal? That's a big question you should be answering yourself.
2007-01-28 11:02:45 · answer #11 · answered by FunBetty! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋