I have been a coxin for my college mens rowing team this year. i'm the only girl, all the guys are like my brothers. (in the past on drunken nights I have kissed 3 of them) It's discouraged that the coxins and rowers have relationships or hook up for fear of someone quitting so u have 2 keep it cool.
The best rower on my team who's like my brother kissed me after a night out on friday and we did alot of kissing and talking until we fell asleep. It was perfect. He got to me that night.
Unlike the others he kept it a secret, no teammates knows. The problem is the kiss happened saturday at like 1:30 - 5:30 am and I see him every day at pratice and races but he hasn't made an attempt 2 hang out with me since. He is really serious about rowing though and I would NEVER EVER get in the way of that.
Think I should just drop it and going back like nothing happened, or wait for him to make his mind up. I just don't want to get 2 caught up in him and get my heart broken. What do u think
2007-01-28 10:51:46 · 4 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Sports ➔ Other - Sports
You're setting yourself up to get your heart broken. Clearly, his top priority is the team and cavorting with you can jeopardize his good standing with the rest of the team. Therefore, the one night you had will likely be the only one....at least until one or both of you leaves the team. Which is more important to you? That's what you have to ask yourself. But bear in mind, he needs to keep his head in the game and that is where his heart will be as well.
2007-01-28 11:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by AileneWright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that he is probably embarrassed about what happened. From the story you've provided, it seems like you're pretty friendly with multiple members of the team.
If having a relationship with him is important to you, then I would ask him to meet you someplace discreet and talk about your feelings for him.
2007-01-28 10:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long until the season is over? Let him know he got to you and tell him you'll talk at the end of the season--unless you all get all boozed up again.
2007-01-28 10:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since you've kissed 3 of them in one setting they see you as a slut im sure, thats probably the problem.
2007-01-28 10:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by SS LAZIO 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋