I am gay but nobody knows, suddenly I realised another student from my school always glance at me, but when I look at him he pretends to look at the others . I am not sure whether he is gay or not and I don't understand why is he looking at me like this, I also wanna make friend with him but I am afraid he will realise I'm gay ........
You guys help me please !!!
2007-01-28 10:46:03 · 17 answers · asked by B college 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Have you tried asking around to see if he's gay or interested in you maybe? You might want to before you start talking to him? Or at least come out of the closet?
He could just be glancing at you for no reason at all. What would it matter? Don't you think you'd feel better about yourself once you opened up about who you are?
How else will you ever know? And how else will anyone else know about you if they're ever interested in you?
2007-01-28 10:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make conversation with him. Don't get paranoid about being gay that everyone might be able to identify you as such. It's a waste of time and energy. The guy that is glancing at you may just be in need of a friends and doesn't quite know how to go about making them. It doesn't mean he is gay or that he thinks you're gay.
2007-01-28 10:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but IS AFRAID. He thinks someone will find out he is gay and doesn't want anyone to know. So, wait till he is alone (look at him hard (stare at him, smile real nice and nod your head at HIM)). Then when you can, look at him again and smile, and look away, and do not look back until class is over. Then look at him, nod your head towards the door and leave. Wait for him in the hallway and ask if he has plans and would like to get a coke/coffee, whatever. Then, just get to know each other.
2007-01-28 11:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 15:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by bornhoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's nothing wrong with being gay, first.
I suggest that you talk to him. Don't be horribly blunt by saying, "Are you checking me out?"
That's a turn-off.
But do initiate conversation and become friends and see where the wind takes you.
2007-01-28 10:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to make friends with him. Do friends stuff together and after you get to know him better, you'll have a clearer idea of whether he's attracted to guys or girls. If he is attracted to you, then you'll have the advantage of already being friends before you decide to be something more than just friends.
2007-01-28 10:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is trying to figure out if you are gay. That's a subject I know nothing about. But good-luck anyway.
2007-01-28 10:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch him at lunch then try aren't you in my math class or where ever class it is. Then ask something like did you understand that question that the teacher asked? It's a good icebreaker.
2007-01-28 11:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Flat_out_Bob 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends with him first and see how he is like to knoe for sure if u like him or not
u can get closer and closer and when u find out he is gay, you confess to him u r gay too
yes, he likes u
gOoD lUcK
2007-01-28 10:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by jen kutcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. If he's gay, you'll probably find out soon, and if not, then at least you'll have made a new friend.
2007-01-28 10:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋