last night my friend and I had a really deep conversation about the pass and middle school and everything. When we were in middle school she was REALLY mean to me, like biggest bully you can imagine her and her friends at the time ruined my life pretty much. Anyways so eventually she realized what she was doing was wrong and she decided to leave them and be my friend and now we're the best of friends, weird huh? anyways so during this convo she brought up "yeah i was soo mean to you, honnestly you are one of the strongest people i know" and then for some reason I started crying b/c i looked back at those times and how horrible and sad they were.
Ok so crying last night is pretty embaressing and probably made her feel awkward but if you were her what might be running through your head when i was crying?
2007-01-28 10:24:06 · 22 answers · asked by Rachel C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I was wrong about the strong part?
2007-01-28 10:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by my_evil_twin_41 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well if she didn't feel bad..Then she couldn't possibly care to much about you....Its great that the 2 of you are friends now but she really needs to know how she made you feel and that it was not okay and yes granted this is the past...But the past makes alot of who we are today....I don't think anyone would think you were weird or out of line by crying..To those up there who said they did I would Imagine they are still children and dont have a clue.This girl hurt you and you have the right to let her know that....Don't feel bad for expressing yourself and showing her the pain she caused you!!! GOOD LUCK :)
2007-01-28 10:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think two things were probably running thru her head. One, how bad she felt for the way that she treated you and hurt you, and hopefully two, that she is proud of herself for seeing the error of her ways and making the change to be a better person. Thats the kind of person I would want for a friend. I must say that speaks alot of you also, you put the past behind you, and you forgave her. I hope the two of you have a life long friendship that no man, woman or beast can break up.
2007-01-28 10:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-10 14:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 02:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by schenecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly a good friend now, she felt horrible. if she's been a good friend to you since her change of heart, then she has probably made of for what she did in the past. everyone is young and stupid. if she means a lot to you, she now knows she made you upset and now it's time to let it go and see how strong your relationship can stay...good luck!
2007-01-28 10:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cindy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully she can see what sort of impact her bulleying had on you.
It's an awful thing to experience but it will make you a stronger person as you grow up and you will find that it will make you able to stand up for yourself in relationships and and at work.
I like to believe the saying "Whatever doesn't kill you will make you stronger"
2007-01-28 10:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probally thinking you are very sensitive and glad too be her friend. And unless you told her why you were crying then she might be thinking that you were crying because of how mean she was too you.
2007-01-28 10:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by happy-soccer-feet! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope it was guilt 4 what she put u through, i was bullied an its horrible can she ever be your true friend? if she wants to be she has alot of making up 2 do
2007-01-28 10:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by lizjess2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might have been feeling bad inside. Also I would have felt a little akward and not know what to say.
2007-01-28 10:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by Uncle Face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be thinking, Man this sucks. I wish he'd quit being such a weinie and grow up, now I realize why we made fun of him.
2007-01-28 10:29:17 · answer #11 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋