From my experience I never even got a chance to go on a date with a woman and I'm 23 and a virgin. What can I do to make myself more appealing to women?
2007-01-28 09:50:38 · 22 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I like guys who are shy, but not TOO shy, because I happen to be VERY shy myself, so two super shy people wouldn't really work out. I think virgins are appealing since I happen to be one myself, but I wouldn't judge somebody on whether or not they're a virgin because that doesn't make a person who they are.
2007-01-28 09:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By being shy, you are putting up big signs "STAY AWAY" "NOT INTERESTED" even "I AM TOO GOOD FOR YOU".
Your experiences are shaped by your attitude.
You need to become more confident in yourself that you can engage in an converstation with a girl. Find something that interests you, such as music, then take lessons, join a club. These situations are much less threatening to a shy person than party's or night clubs.
Also, you could tell the girl from the outset that you are shy, and find it difficult. If she is intersted, she will stick around.
Good luck!
2007-01-28 09:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well here is the thing. My boyfriend is one of the quitest guys I know. I love him alot My best guy friend also is very quit. I love the nice guys. If you are having trouble being apealing to women maybe what you should do is pursue yourself as a fun, goffy guy. Show who you really are. Girls love a man who can show his true personalty. Good luck. Just remember to always be yourself.
2007-01-28 09:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that many girls like 'bad boys' (most of my friends do) but there are girls out there who do like nice guys (I've always preferred nice, shy guys), so don't try and change yourself, just be yourself until you find one ... When yo'ure with a woman don't try to impress or anything, just have a normal conversation. sounds over simplified but in time you will meet someone who appreciates you for who you are, and that;s all you have to be.
2007-01-28 09:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy guys can be cute, but you have to open up eventually. I mean, some people are just way to shy. Try taking some classes on how to be more open and assertive. Just remember, who cares what people think, right? Be yourself.
2007-01-28 09:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by ஐ♥Gin♥ஐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like shy nice guys, i think it's cute and I'm straight forward enough to ask the guy out if necessary....just try to open up a bit more, with the right girl you'll be able to overcome shyness
2007-01-28 09:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you have low self esteem. you believe you are not good enough to be around women/talk to women.
you need to be more positive about yourself, you also sound like you are very shy.
go for one on one conversations instead of alot of people. it's easier to converse with one person than with a whole bunch of people at a time.
that way you will know the person is actually listening to you and you her. without all the interruption.
good luck! :)
2007-01-28 09:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by ~muffun~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I like shy guys. Don't change anything, just try to get out more and maybe you'll meet someone. Maybe you won't. My sister is 25 and hasn't had a date or sex ever.
2007-01-28 09:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by Laura Appleseed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be ur self oneday u'll find the right girl. i like guys that r like that but i have a boyfriend and im to young for u.
2007-01-28 09:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by Caterpillar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's always good to change your style up to a more apealing or sexier look and if you like them tdon't be shy
2007-01-28 10:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by Cece C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋