i told my girlfriend of 6 years that i had something important to talk to her about when she got home from work. she was all excited, i didn't know why really. i told when she got home that i wanted to have an open relationship, because i feel like i have this urge to just sleep with whoever i want you know? she punched me in the face. she told me that she thought i was going to propose. i told her it was just a natural thing to want to have sex with as many women as i could and it was dragging me down to be with one woman. now she wants to break up with me. i don't want to break up, i just want to know that it's ok to have sex with any girl i find myself in the position to have sex with. she cried for a long time after she punched me, and talked on the phone with her friends and her mother who all hate me very much now. what am i supposed to do? who is right in this situation?
2007-01-28 09:49:20 · 16 answers · asked by ccr152 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Government
Well first off you are very very wrong. You aren't an animal your a man number one. It's more responsible for you as a man to have a healthy relationship with one girl then to go traipsing around banging every girl you come across. Just think about how many STD's you'll have by the time your done. I would have punched you in the face and dragged your punk butt out into the street. It's what you deserve for being so rude. The girl is a saint to have put up with you.
2007-01-28 10:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have really gone and stepped in it now, and you are up to your neck. Sounds like you really love her but you are just stupid.
Here is what I would do...Just let her simmer down a little and after a couple of days of not calling her. Just show up at the door and propose to get married. Tell her you can't live without her in your life and you can't believe you had done such a foolish thing.
At least then you will be back in the saddle so to speak and if the marriage doesn't happen it was not meant to be anyway. If you still want some strange you will have to sneak it in...but don't say I didn't warn you. You will be playing with fire at that point and you might get burned again.
2007-01-28 10:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have punched you too!!!! and i would have thought you were going to propose too. lissen Mr. you have a good girl that has been staying by your side all those years and would never even concider even doing anything t like that to you. If you still think that you need to be runing around sleeping with other girls when ever you get the chance, you are no more mature than any 16 year old kid. you are not ready for any type of relationship. Even if she did agree to all this, you would be puting her in danger. What if you catch a STD from one of these many women you want to sleep with ? what if you give it to your girlfriend? think about that. you will be dam lucky if you get her back, and the girl is totaly right!
2007-01-28 10:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Frankly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have punched you too! If you want to sleep around, you don't need to be in a serious relationship. She obviously is more serious about you than you are about her. You can't "love" one person and want to sleep with every other person you see. It just doesn't work like that. The only thing you can do now, if you really want her to stay, is tell her how sorry you are and that you don't want an open relationship. And I can't guarantee that'll work.
2007-01-28 09:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by manders030405 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to want to have sex with whoever, but you can't expect a decent girl to wait around while you do that. You should have just broken up with her or something - you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want to sleep around, do it outside of the relationship. Also, you could have said that in a much nicer way.
But on the other hand, bonus points for your honesty. At least you didn't just start cheating on her.
2007-01-28 09:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Julie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is fairly no longer some thing needy or determined about desirous to be along with your loved. So of direction, you're only being a common human being with thoughts. you should for particular tell her the way you sense because per chance she only forgot and she or he extremely isn't doing this deliberately. having reported that, per chance she would not care, because some people do not. in the experience that your gf has worry following up on plans, per chance she's kinda flaky, it is no longer good. yet i'm saying this from what you reported on your question, it is only my assumption. good luck with this!
2016-10-16 05:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is right. after 6 years you want to talk I can see why she was expecting a proposal. You went about it the wrong way I think you could of brought up the fact that you want to be with other chicks maybe in a drunken state or a joking matter to see what she says. but its to late your f--ked
2007-01-28 09:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by whynot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong in bring up such a proposal. You have lost all that you had with her. You have ripped her heart out. You as mush as said that you no longer love her.
You went about it all the wrong way to begin with.
Six years without bringing up marriage, boy there is something wrong.
2007-01-28 12:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by Oilfieldtrashwtx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely in the wrong here. First, for being stupid in your relationship,
and second, for being stupid enough to post this in the government section.
BTW, you wanted more and now you're getting less. That's what happens when you are greedy.
2007-01-28 09:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by bkc99xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like you either. You're not right! Let go of the girl and have sex as much as you can. Wear a rubber...
2007-01-28 09:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Matahari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋