I love my fiancee very much and he is crazy about me and thinks im very pretty, but i keep getting comments from some family members that we dont look right together, he is a couple inches taller than me and kinda thin, and im a little chubby, should i be worried about this? do we really weird together?
2007-01-28 09:41:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell em to mind their own business, or just ignore them, or the next time they say something just say something really stupid and unrelated back to them, because that's what their comment is worth in response!
As long as you 2 are happy, who cares!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-28 09:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be. How you look together on the outside is not important and definitely not, if whatever it is, don't bother the two of you.
That is whats wrong in the world today, its all about looks and not enough about, what's on the INSIDE.
In my opinion, you both are way ahaid of many, many others by having the LOVE for each other. In time looks have a way to change in many ways but LOVE can concur all.
Remember this: as long as you two have LOVE &HAPPINESS youe have it all!!
2007-01-28 09:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you worry your sweet little head over what someone said like that, just laugh it off. Never be self conscience, it is so self demeaning. God made every one of us unique and you and your boyfriend are no exception.Another thing, God don't make junk.Put a smile on that pretty little face and be happy. Don't even question negative comments.Always think positive,it will work so much better for you~~~~Stay happy & warm~~~~~~~~Jill
2007-01-28 09:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you love him and he loves you then why do you worry about what family mambers are saying? It sounds like to me that they are not happy so they don't want to see you happy, in other words if you are sure that you love him and sure that he is crazy about you then noone else matters because true love is hard to find, go for it and never be self conscience about anything, you have nothing to be worried about.
2007-01-28 09:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by outdoors 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let what others think define who you are. Your fiancee loves you and that is all that matters. Don't let others ruin what has taken you a lifetime to find. Look to him for everything that you need...you are marrying him not those other people.
2007-01-28 09:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jalyn24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he loves you, don't worry about what his family thinks. Looks aren't whats important in a relationship...look at Heidi Klum and Seal, they're a mismatched looking couple but they don't care 'cause they love each other.
2007-01-28 09:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by simply.beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've got that much love between the two of you, lady...hang on to it for all it is worth and forget his very troubled little family. Sounds like your guy is the black sheep...thank God.
2007-01-28 09:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest who cares what the hell they think - its how you feel that is the one and only important thing. If they say you dont look right together then tell them not to look!
2007-01-28 09:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by zappafan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your family shouldnt be saying that kind of stuff about you guys! the should support your descision....
and NO NO NO i am positive you look gorgeous together. you love each other obviously as your getting married....your fiance loves you for who you are and that is al that matters!!
i am chubbier than my boyfirend (who is kinda stick like!!) :-)
no you shouldnt be self concious....it just causes problems when you think about it too much!!
good luck and congrats
:-)
2007-01-28 10:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by ticklish101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw them. Its your life and I would make my decisions based on how I feel, not on the opinion of others especially over such pettiness. What do you care how u look together, if you love him, then love him, what is the problem?
2007-01-28 09:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Brainiac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋