My ex husband called me the night before he got married and asked me how I felt about it and what thoughts were. My question is WHY would he do that? Why does he care what I think? I don't get it!
2007-01-28 09:37:18 · 16 answers · asked by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he's rubbing it in your face. hang up next time.
2007-01-28 09:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he loves you always as a friend because that is how you both started out is 2 loving friends that fell in love whether it was at first site or not. he wanted you at the wedding but it is not politically correct for that to happen. I didn't care my ex hubby was my new hubby best man. I need to wonder why you are so wondering about why he did this and and reading so much into this? He simply cares about what your feelings are about his new life and there is that sorta "parent" thing going on where he needs your "permission" I needed that with my ex as well. You both shared a very special piece of life together. You 2 were MARRIED remember?? It is normal for this to happen and it happens more often than you think. I hope you will remain a good friend to him and keep your "phone line" open to him always.
2007-01-28 09:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by LM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that doesn't make much sense to me either! Do you have children together? That would be the only logical reason I could think of because that person will be involved in the child or childrens' lives!
2007-01-28 09:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by jacksonblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're divorced doesn't mean there aren't still ties there, and marriage is a big step. He probably still needed your "approval", or at least open the gate for him to feel completely comfortable about his decision.
2007-01-28 10:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was looking for you to talk him out of getting married he probably thought you may still care about him.
2007-01-28 09:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's thinking of you more than the one he married.
I went through a divorce and there wasn't one day I didn't think
about my ex! All anyone can do is accept what happened and go from there. (unless there's more than a spark left)
2007-01-28 09:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To many unanswered questions here, Who's ideal was it for the 2 of you to split? Do you share children together. Is he someone that needs the approval of someone else on important stuff. Best thing to tell you is forget it, unless you wanted him back.
2007-01-28 09:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably had last minute nerves. My friend's ex actually asked her if there was any chance they could get back together.
2007-01-28 09:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is feeling like he might just need your approval to go on with his life. Just give it to him.
2007-01-28 09:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by gettin it 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He was just closing one chapter in his life now that he is starting a new one. Let it be...
2007-01-28 09:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jalyn24 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋