I need help please?

Question

ok me and my girl frien have ben togeather for almost 2 years now she is the realy rude and mean type and i cant live without her
she is 17 and i am 18 our last fight was because i was disaplening my brother for what he said to her we got in a argument she told me i never satisfy her in bed and only reason she stayed with me is cus her ex died ( we had alot of problems with him ) but anyways i got mad last my cool spit on her arm and told her i didnt want to see her. but now 1 week later im dieing without her im depresed i went to see her and she is dating a 26 yr old fat guy ( nothing wrong with fat ) and i was drunk and on ani depresents he jumped on me and i guess beat me up my only marks are from him choking me when i left he called the cops and i was arrested im told if i come back ill get arrested again i need help i love her so much i cant sleep i dont eat or anything i am not the best looking missing 3 teeth ( get them in 2 days ) and i cut my long hair we both love i need her

Answer 1

I am sure your short hair is just fine too, and glad you are replacing your teeth.

Don't do this to yourself. You said she was nasty to you...she sounds like such a witch. Go on...get yourself off the pity train and get yourself out there.

Move on.

Answer 2

First of all I need to state that you need to NOT take your antidepressants and alcohol together but you know this already right?
I think some counseling would do you some good right now. You sound very hurt and talking to someone professional may be a lot of help to you. You deserve better then hurting over someone who is a mean person to you and when you spit at her that says alot. To be spitting mad means you are beyond control with anger over her and it means you both need to be away from each other.
Find things in your life that make you happy. Eventually the right girl will come along and remember not to spit on her.

Answer 3

Wow were do I start..for once, You need some self-esteem, love yourself please!Its clear and loud that she didnt love you when you were togetehr and isnt loving you now, so y are you getting harmed and in trouble for someone who cares less what happens to you?She told you the reason y she was with you and you stilll persist on being with her..Your gonna let a rude youn teenage girl win over you. Grow up and act mature, shes not the only woman on earth, shes only going to hurt you more. I kwow first love is hard but if you love yourself and realize shes no good keep on going forward Not backward!

Answer 4

You are not going to die without her. Life goes on and so will you. I think it is so ridiculous whenever I hear someone say they are going to die because a relationship ends. YOU DO NOT DIE! If that were the case half the people on the earth would be dead. We all have relationships end and you are so young. You have your whole life ahead of you to find the right woman. She does not deserve you. After 2 years,she is with someone else after only 1 week. That is sad. She doesn't really love you. I know it hurts right now, but you have to go on.

Answer 5

Well she was using you by what you said. We all don't look perfect, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, remember? Try to find a woman that respects you for you, without all of the baggage of getting out of a bad relationship thats heavy weight to carry. There are many women out there that might be looking for a GUY just like you. Not all people are as shallow as you might think. Give life a chance. It may have another path for you, this is why this relationship didnt workout, life may be getting you ready for something bigger. If you meet a new girl I bet you will forget what this girl's name is. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

You do need help but, as much as you're hurting, she's not your answer...she's only going to hurt you some more. LEAVE HER ALONE. Trust me, looks are not what get the girls. I know you think it does but that's a lie. Build your confidence, find the jewel inside of you, get to know yourself, find a hobby, FINISH SCHOOL. You'll look back on this phase of your life and realize what a waste she was. Trust me, go to school and let the world see the gifts that God has instilled in you. Women will be flocking to you, trust me.

Answer 7

Your only 18 years old you've got your whole life ahead of you . Go hang out with your friends, stay busy ,and keep your mind occupied on other things . They are plenty of other girls in this world sweet girls. Sounds like she has moved on so you need to do the same .I know it won't be easy so stay strong and good luck to ya!!!

Answer 8

if she is telling you these kinds of things, who wants to be with them anyways!?
you'll only hurt yourself even more if you stay with her... shes still immature if she is telling you things like that and she doesnt know what she wants, i mean shes 17 and shes dating a 26 yr old?!
thats rape!!! *(in the eyes of the law)* but trust me, you need to move on... go out and STOP thinking of her because odds are shes not thinking of you. so do yourself the favor and MOVE ON!!
it'll be for the best in the end, you may not think so now, but it will.

Answer 9

26 year-old-fatguy, huh?
Usually I don't like the mean, rude types, but because you love her, I'll tell you what to do.
It just might be possible that she MAY be trying to make you jealous.... MAYBE.
I think you may only have one choice, but I think you'd be willing to risk it.
Tell her that you love her.
Maybe she'll come around and dump the 26 yr old dude.
If not, then you might end up getting beaten up again.
But the final decision is up to you.
I just give suggestions.

Answer 10

No you dont.But there is someone out there that needs you maybe you should look for them and forget her.Sounds like a lot of trouble to me.