It seems like all I do is try to avoid being alone. I plan my day around accidentally bumping into people and everything I do is about trying to find someone to hang out with. I try so hard,but as soon as I let my guard down I end up alone. Every night and weekend I'm alone at home! I did the "be outgoing" thing, I made friends I meet new people all the time but they always end up forgetting about me. Why do I end up alone all the time? Why don't other people ever go this far out of their way for me? Why does it work for other people and not me?
When I'm around people ánd I know they want me there I feel so happy, but that's rare and usually just like a casual quick chat.
2007-01-28 09:21:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I should've seen the "be patient" answer coming. My mom's been telling me that for 18 years. If everyone had to wait 18+ years to be able to make friends it would be a lonly existence for alot more than just me.
2007-01-28 10:27:09 · update #1
No offense, but you may come off as being needy. You HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO BE COMFORTABLE WITH YOURSELF!. There's an inherent confidence that comes with that and you'll find that people will come around you more because of your confidence level. They'll want to know what you're all about. find a hobby, it'll all work out, just be patient.
2007-01-28 09:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by Emerald Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people purely prefer being on my own incredibly than with somebody. I surely have a 34 year previous brother that prefer to spend something of his existence on my own with the aid of fact he purely prefers it that way. He says acquaintances are distinctive, he will work together with people in the process the day; besides the shown fact that, he needs to return domicile to an empty domicile without one to worry him or get interior the way. different all and sundry is distinctive and don't even socialize with the aid of fact they in line with danger do no longer benefit from the corporate of others. that is all who you're as a individual. that's what makes each individual distinctive from the subsequent.
2016-11-01 12:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry. i just thin k that people find new friends and hang out with them. it happens to me a lot bu t it is always oks to me. i hate it to a lot. but i think that it is fun meeting other people. dont u. i get it why it happens but one day u will have a friend that will always stauy there with u.
2007-01-28 09:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Orlando Bloom lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋