2007-01-28 09:17:12 · 7 answers · asked by Tee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make your decisions without needing his approval.
Some men just don't listene to anyone. So look out for him and make sensible decisions...and don't worry about it.
That is the sensible thing to do, what ya think?
2007-01-28 09:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by kishoti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you're an idiot because you're female. I don't care how nice he is to you any other way, this will never change, and you'll always come second to everything, he will never consider your feelings in anything, and he damn well doesn't consider you important enough or worthy of having a faithful partner. After all, you are just a piece of meat he uses when he's too lazy to use his own hand. He cares absolutely NOTHING for you. Take eveything you can from him, and leave him a broken worthless human being, which isn't too far off anyway. Good luck, unfortunately, you are in this by yourself.
2007-01-28 09:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find out...LET ME KNOW.... I have been trying for 40 years to convince mine I AM capable of dressing myself....lol... seriously, the best you can hope is to keep trying and see if you can find a way to phrase your advice so it sounds like you are asking him... ridiculous I know but some men's pride [and a few women] just won't let them accept anyone's advice that contradicts THEIR OPINION. facts don't matter!!!!! If he is a good husband otherwise..try to ignore this and find others who value your opinion..we all need to feel validated. Good Luck...
2007-01-28 09:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by sw-in-gardener 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate to him how you feel about this... Ask him why he does not believe you.. Tell him this really bothers and hurts you when he does this... Talk calmly to him and do not raise your voice or nag him... Seek counseling for your marriage if need be.
http://www.marriagetoday.org
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2007-01-28 09:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pride gets in the way. make your ideas seem like his ideas. like say, what do you think about this way and this way. give him choices on paper and the outcome of the choices. ask him for his input and advise. peace
2007-01-28 09:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How Come you lost his trust???????????.....detailed explanation pls..........why didn't you started with that first ????
2007-01-28 09:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray for him! good luck-----
2007-01-28 09:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋