i recently got married about a month ago and we have been together for over 3 years. Now my husband decides he wants to go out every Friday with friends to a Bar and drink and he has been out ever since we got married and I get extremely upset but this doesn't seem to stop him. I want some advice on how to handle this situation because i know this is not healthy for our relationship and since we are Newlyweds.
2007-01-28 09:10:03 · 7 answers · asked by onehotcurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What makes you think that? Time away from each other is an important part of marriage. I don't know if it has to be every Friday, but you do needs time apart. I have been married for over 30 years and we have always maintained a little time away from each other.
Why can't you go with him on Fridays once in awhile? Talk to him, but don't let your insecurities ruin a marriage. Give him the space he needs to feel like a man!
2007-01-28 09:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to find new interests for the two of you. Make Friday night movie night, or dinner out night, because he should not be going out every Friday without you. It is also good to find friends that are married and do things with them. My husband and I have married friends and we do lots of fun things together. Movies, dinner, game night (we pick whose house), travel, plays, etc. Also you all need to incorporate God into your relationship. Take time to pray, have bible study,
2007-01-28 15:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Moni B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about this and tell how you feel. I think he should be able to go out with the guys from time to time, but every Friday night seems to be a bit much.
2007-01-28 09:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Shauny B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had to be anywhere near my spouse for 24/7 one of us would die and it wouldn't be me.
Having time away is very good for you. Now, if it becomes EVERY night then it's a problem Once a week....that's healthy. Use that time to pamper yourself. Take a long bubble bath, read a book, or go out with some of your friends. :D
2007-01-28 09:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by Deede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 02:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to bring the alcohol home.... If he continues to go out then you go out on the town with him or with your girlfriends.
2007-01-28 09:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to cut it down to once a month, he's not a bachelor anymore
2007-01-28 09:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋