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Last night I went out with work colleagues and met the boyfriend of one of my colleagues. As I walked into the bar he already knew my name as he introduced himself.

Towards the end of the night, he spoke to me, saying:I'm his idol, he admires me a lot and that he hopes that his girlfriend won't dump him to be with me!!!

She is now ignoring me---WHY???I didnt say anything rude to her or her boyfriend..........

What could she have possibly told her boyfriend about me for him to say those things to me???

Could she secretly fancy me???

This was the 1st time i met him+I'm a bloke......

2007-01-28 08:50:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

7 answers

She may fancy you but I think her problem is that she is embarrassed to have you know that she has been talking about you. Even when it is obviously nice things she has said, she probably didn't ever expect that you would find out. It is one reason why you shouldn't mix business with pleasure! Her boyfriend has heard nothing but how great you are and probably felt as if he already knew you. I expect he was trying to find something to talk about with you. Be kind to her and just let it ride - she will get over her embarrassment eventually!

2007-01-28 09:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all, she is probably ignoring you because she is so embarrassed that her boyfriend would say something to you about the information she shared with him regarding you. I think she did tell her boyfriend some really good things about you, enough to where he should be concerned. I would give her some space and let her get over it because I believe she is embarrassed and eventually she will come around.

2007-01-28 08:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by Pegi 3 · 0 0

How random! She could be ignoring you because she is embarressed. Was her bf being serious or was he pulling your leg? It does sound a little far fetched..

Just act normal with your girl workmate tomoz and if she is being funny with you be upfront and ask her what it up..? Good Luck!

2007-01-28 09:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by treacle 2 · 0 0

haha maaan i'unno. that is very weird indeed. i guess just ignore it and give her time to calm down and start talking to you again. it's not like you need to apologize to her or anything. i'unno what to tell you about that one:P it does sound like she secretly likes you. maybe she's ignoring you because she's embarassed because of what her bf did and now can't face you. i'unno. just let her be and give her time to think. if she misses you, she'll come back.

2007-01-28 08:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Come on everybody he has asked this question 93 times.

2007-01-28 09:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Spanner 6 · 0 0

Well thats one possibility.. another is hes secretly gay or Bi and wants you..

If that sorta stuff botherd me (which it dosent I'm bi) I'd be way more worried about him than i would her LOL

2007-01-28 09:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0 0

Stop posting this same flaming question ! Im sick of seeing it now !...You have posted it repeatedly,you are obsessed !!!

2007-01-28 08:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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