Me and my bf have been together for 3 months and he claims that he used to last for hours. But with me its more like 5 minutes. I have never had an orgasm with any of the men ive been with. I have to do it manually. What is the problem?
2007-01-28 08:22:18 · 10 answers · asked by MissPanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why cant he last with me? is it me? he said he's never loved anyone like he loves me.
2007-01-28 08:35:29 · update #1
im 5 7 155. Im not overweight.
2007-01-28 08:36:13 · update #2
im all down for the fourplay. but he really doesnt. i tell him what i like but he dont do it. But my real question is why is he only lasting 5 minutes?
2007-01-28 08:53:40 · update #3
i kinda believe him about the hours thing because he gets upset when it happens.
not alot of guys can last with me. it goes real quick.
2007-01-28 09:08:35 · update #4
Sounds like he gets way to excited. He needs to slow down a bit. Go slow.
2007-02-05 05:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by pun82224 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not over just because he's finished, in fact he's not even finished! Pre-ejaculation is common..Don't stop, just keep going, sometimes messy is enough to send you over the edge! You need to adjust your angles, put a pillow under your butt. If you want to orgasm with this guy, you have to be realistic about how much he turns you on, if he really does then do it on a chair where you're facing him. Some of us have to work harder than others and you may be that lucky girl! It's going to take at least 30 minutes of good hard lovin' and you need to feel for yourself if you're getting anywhere. Let him do what he's going to do but don't stop...Maybe by the time you're finishing, he'll have another! Have fun and talk dirty!
2007-02-05 13:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't interested enough in pleasing his partner. He should read about tantra sex and how I guy can actually have an organism without blowing his load. He can then still keep hard and extend the sexual intercourse longer since a woman can climax multiple times. The woman will then be satified with the longer amount of time her partner is able to keep thrusting inside her.
2007-02-05 13:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by iceblue_purple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same thing right now. ive been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 years and the sex has gotten low grade for the last year or so. im really not counting, but i have to take care of myself most of the time. theyre just selfish and self-serving and dont care about us.
2007-02-01 20:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit him down and really explain to him how you feel i just think nothing beats talking and if he really cares about you he will try to put more effort in
2007-02-05 13:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Nokuthula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its not you its him...maybe you got good p***y or maybe he lied 2 you about the hours thing sometimes men get full of themselves...ask him
2007-01-28 16:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by dj. twizz f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you overweight? That can have a lot to do with it. Hell they may not be able to get to your spot....lol
2007-01-28 16:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might have premature ejaculation and might have to see a doctor about it.
2007-02-04 13:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by analee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do ya not interact in foreplay, What you need to do is find someone who will take his or her time on pleasing you, then please himself or herself.........
2007-01-28 16:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men lie about that..Takes a real man to please you first, then himself...find that man...
2007-02-05 12:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋