one of my best friends , ashley, has many problems
her bestfriend/cousin was found dead in the bathroom after 2 weeks that they moved .
her uncle has cancer and has 6 months
her aunt has cancer
her boyfriend, robert, just got out of a coma, but said that everything was her fault that there was too much drama, she also said that she still loves him,
but yesturday he went to the hospital, for blood loss *he cut himself* and today she sent me an e-mail that he died! because of blood lost, trama in the head, and he was taking some kind of pills. I feel so useless i want to help her some how! the last thing that was on the e-mail was that before he died he gave her cousin juan a note, and shes gonna show me tomorw.
Is there anyway to help her shes crying alot and im afraid shes gonna do something to herself!
what can i do!?!?!?:(:(T_T_T
2007-01-28 08:19:11 · 13 answers · asked by Skyye 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WOw!!!! Get to this friend right away!!! SHe needs you big time!!! Just spend a couple of days by her side so she can dry it out and talk. You can't fix this for her but you can be her support group. She needs to know you care. She needs a big hug a box of soft tissues a pair of flannel jammies and a gallon of cholcolate ice cream with two spoons. Blessings and Prayers go out to you both!!!
2007-02-05 06:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kimber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that poor girl she is in my prayers. This is a hard sitiuation and they only thing you can really do for her is to be there for her to listen to her and comfort her when she needs it. When my aunt died 3 years ago from a blood clot I was in the room with her when she passed it was very hard on me I cried for weeks and did not wanna do anything even lost my job over it. My friends where there when I needed to talk or just a hug and that helped a lot more then you would think it would. But other then that there is not much elese you can do for her in a situation like that. Lots of prayers for her and her family will help also. I wish you the best and your firend Im sorry to hear all that. Take care
2007-02-05 12:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Amy D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know many people that kill they're selves because of what's happening in they're personal life. The best way to stop this from happening is to spend time with her so she can get her mind off of what's happening.
2007-02-05 12:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by Monica P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her and let her know she can always count on you if she ever feel sad tell her you are only a call away. Keep checking on her by going to see her or call her.
2007-02-05 07:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Gina D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take her some place like the beach and just walk on the sand and let her cry and talk. let her grieve and let it all out. tell her you are going to be there for her and she can talk to you about anything. Let her know she is important to you.
2007-02-04 20:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by LETICIA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. She is obviously having a really hard time, and although you wont be able to understand her pain, you can, and should, let her know that you are there for her no matter what!
My condolences.
2007-02-03 14:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by BreeMay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do right now is to be there for her......she has had a lot of crap happen to her and im sry to hear that but the best thing she needs is to have a friend by her right now......let her know that things are gonna be ok and that your gonna be there for her
2007-02-04 15:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by micky m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... Make sure you are always there for her and she needs to realize that hurting yourself isn't going to solve anything, and that what happened wasn't her fault. Suggest counseling to her? it could help, that must be hard for her. Good luck... be there for her!
2007-02-05 15:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by alison p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. Pray for her and love her. Just always keep checking on her and let her know that you aren't going anywere. My condolences are with her.
2007-02-03 23:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by redhed172000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure she doesnt kill herself after these kind of thing people tend to do that
2007-02-04 21:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋