I've been really close to this guy since we've been little. He's pretty much a brother to me. We've been there for each other through everything and we know we can count on each other! He's been kinda different lately....when i said something about calling him my brother, he looked at me and repeated it and kinda sat there like he was thinking....I don't know if he likes me as more than a friend or if it was just a brain freeze. I really can't see him like that because of how close we are....how do i get my point across without totally distancing myself and ruining our tight friendship?
2007-01-28 08:06:53 · 6 answers · asked by Lucky Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you're sending him mixed messages. Check your body language and what you say to him. Do you act girlfriend like around him or act like a buddy? You're going to have to be honest with him. He cares a lot about you so you won't lose him. You just need to be honest so that if he does want to be with you...he can move on instead of waiting for you to be ready.
2007-01-28 08:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything unless he tells you he likes you as more then a friend, directly. But if he does then you have to be honest. Tell him you like him as a friend and you can't see him as a boyfriend. Tell him you really don't want to ruin a perfectly good friendship and that most girlfriends and boyfriends will come and go but friends are forever.
2007-01-28 16:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Broadway fanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be truthful with him,tell him he will always be a good friend,like a brother you never want to loose.it will be a wake up call,and he will not want to loose you either.If he really cares for you,things won't change. Other wise if you stop seeing him,you could loose someone that is special to you.
2007-01-28 16:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you really don't like him any more that a brother think about it. but if you still feel he is like a brother, then being the good frens you are,the two of you sit down and talk about how both of you feel and figure a way to deal with it together.
2007-01-28 16:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Carolyn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does, you have, what you need to do now is minimize the damage, tell him why you feel the way you do
good luck
2007-01-28 16:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by headmaster382005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not drop it, just let him have his fantasy about one day going out with you....
2007-01-28 16:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋