My wife and I are 9 years apart. I don't see any problems (she's 29 I'm 38). However I wonder about it when I get older and I can't necessarily perform like I used to. Will She cheat?
2007-01-28 07:56:23 · 34 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cheating is a character flaw NOT an age issue.
Be happy.
2007-01-28 08:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are very fortunate to have a 29 year old woman as your wife. My Wife and I are 6 years apart. I am 37 and she is 31. She make me feel like a super stud in the bed.(smile)
Our marriage is so sweet and the Love is Sincere. Truly, I do not want to trade her for no one.
If it was the other way around, the woman being the oldest, I think there would be some problems later on.
All you have to do is stay in good shape and everything will be fine. The 9 year gap is not bad at all.
2007-01-28 08:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Big P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is going to cheat it has nothing to do with the age gap.I am 34 and my husband is also 9yrs older than me and I would never consider cheating.There is more to a marriage then sex.If your marriage is based on sex then you have some serious issues.Later on in life when you are not able to perform like you used to there are several way's you will still beable to please your wife sexually that's what adult toy stores are for.If you trust your wife then you should never have to worry about her cheating if you don't trust her then you don't belong being married to her.Trust is everything in a relationship/marriage without trust you have nothing.If your wife is going to cheat on you for whatever reason then she obviously does'nt love or respect you and why would you want to be with someone like that.There is no excuse or justification for cheating ever...I don't know why you are worrying about not being able to perform now anyway you are only 38 people now have great sex well up into their 70"s these day's....I would suggest that if you have any trust issues with your wife that you address them now..Good Luck to you.
2007-01-28 08:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL dont really worry about it (personally I like older women myself) if it comes down to it.. just buy a few toys(they make things out there that you couldnt even keep up with when you were 17 in fact).. or hire a temporary BF for her and film it LOL
They make thes lil Blue Pills BTW.. but really at age 38.. dont you think yer kindda jumping the gun? Statistics & divorce rates pretty much say yer gonna be divorced well before you have to worry about the limp noodle syndrome anyway...
so dont sweat it likely yer gonna be on yer third wife by then...
2007-01-28 08:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 20 years. I am 38 he is 47 ., I have never cheated but I will say those problems will arise.. I think that if you are there in other ways emotionally you will be able to work it out. If you become detached physically and emotionally problems could happen. Alot of men put to much emphasis into their sex life and not enough into other aspects of the marriage.
2007-01-28 10:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by pat1268 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 30 and my husband is 39.. We've been married this July will be 11 years. If your wife loves you and is truly devoted to your marriage you will be fine! My husband worries about the same thing! Though his situation is that he is already disabled (physically).. Not performance.. Yeah it slacks off, but bed life doesn't make 100% of your marriage.
Age is only a number (always remember that). As long as your minds are on the same level.
Make sure you tell her your fears.. it does help us to understand what your feeling..
2007-01-28 08:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mistzy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is only a chronological index of time..if you keep yourself in shape and take care of yourself, you will be healthy enough to perform in the future..but as for you younger wife, if she loves you, you she wont cheat on you. At some point in time when couples get older, i mean much much older, sex isn't the biggest concern its companionship. If you have that strong bond, love, trust, and that commitment to love each other through anything, you love will evolve and will fit each other, even if it means less sex when you are elderly, but you will have your best friend by your side.
2007-01-28 08:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you and your wife got married because you love each other, not for the sex. You two will be married for a long time before you are unable to perform like you used to. And as she gets older, maybe she won't perfom like she does now either. If you can satisfy her in other ways (besides sexual) she won't cheat because you are older.
2007-01-28 08:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 10 years my senior...he is 44 and I am 34. We are now trying to get pregnant for the first time for both of us! I tell ya, we are having fun trying:)))
I would never ever cheat on my husband because he is such a great guy who gives me more than what I need in life
2007-01-28 08:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is as much in love with you regardless of what may happen when you age she will remain faithful. She came into (as you should have also) knowing the age difference and what will happen when you get older. You have to remember that as you age so will she be. I would recommend that you discuss these feeling that your having with your wife and I imagine that she will put your mind to ease.
2007-01-28 08:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i are 12 years apart and we love each other and there has been no problems in our marriage concerning his performance. we don't do it as often but it's only gotten more intense. (we have been together for 10 years now. i would never cheat on him.
2007-01-28 10:12:03 · answer #11 · answered by greeneyed_angel362002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋