I'm curious to know if dating for fem lesbians, & finding real love, is more difficult for you than a straight or bisexual women.
I wonder if any of you feel like this for example: You know your cute, your feminine, & you desire a feminine women. You don't desire masculinity which is why your not attracted to men OR manly women. You find many bisexual girls to be very attractive, & you get hit on by few, but usually they just want to enjoy your body rather than really enjoying you (TRULY loving you) as a person. You find that many fem lesbians seem to be similar. Maybe some of them like to be with you, but are afraid of how difficult a real, life long relationship, would be like in a world where a lesbian relationship isn't the norm. So it seems painfully hard to find the right woman who is very super feminine & desires a real life with you.
Do any of you women feel this way? Or is finding love for you easier than Straight women?
Just wondering about lesbians lately.
2007-01-28 07:53:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
rose p -Wow, if you don't mind me asking, how did she pass? I'm sorry for your loss. Have you dated anyone since? How long were you both together before her passing?
2007-01-28 18:54:44 · update #1
Alex - Yeah that must be tough, especially finding one who wants the same future together as you.
2007-02-01 06:33:13 · update #2
What you describe sounds a LOT like my 20's. I could have written that exact question myself, maybe 10-12 years ago, because I felt pretty much the exact same way.
And I have to admit to not being completely innocent of doing some of the things you mention here... but (and this is not to excuse it) I think that's what a person's 20's are supposed to be about... being unattached an having fun. There is plenty of time to settle down later on.
And that is just what I did. My wife and I met at work, and we have been together nearly 9 years now.
Be patient. Your woman will come along... if there is someone for me, there is someone for every femme lesbian out there.
2007-01-28 10:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was not aware of my being lesbian until I met my darling Gwenneth at my place of work. Things just seemed to go right. After 3 years we decided to purchase a house. My mother, brother and his fiance attended our house warming and all the future good things were based on our declaration at that time. Gwen was the practical one, I was and still am, hopelessly romantic. This may in part explain why I became almost suicidally depressed after her death. Her hateful family had a great deal to do with this. The hardest thing in my recovery was to forgive them. Now at 62 I can look for companionship.
May we all find what we seek.
Love to all, Rose P.
2007-01-28 20:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by rose p 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i didn't have any trouble finding true love because i found mine...shes a fem and so am i...i met her ever the net and we just kept talking...we exchanged pix and yea shes a keeper..and we've been together for 3 yrs.
2007-01-28 16:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the hardestpart is finding a woman you like who is bi too
2007-01-30 10:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by alex 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋