It is really affecting my school work, how can i deal with it without telling teachers about it.
2007-01-28 07:45:55 · 13 answers · asked by Swapnil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The only way you can deal with the bullying is by doing whatever makes you comfortable...
Some people who are being bullied might choose to laugh at their bullies...
Some may choose to have a quiet chat with them...
Some may even spend years of their lives building up the courage to properly confront their bullies...
The question is... of all the options there are, how can you make yourself feel more comfortable dealing with it? The last thing you want is to take it into your own hands and make it worse... i dont know the whole situation, and im really sorry that its happening to you, it shouldnt happen to anyone... but you are the most important person here, and its you who needs to be happy after all. Your bullies are probably insecure, more insecure than you are, and probably more insecure than anyone realises. They need to get help, but thats not your problem...
...your problem is that they are taking it out on you...
...if you dont want to tell teachers, then you are gonna have to take it into your own hands, but please be careful... it might get worse...
...try to find some good things about your life, about your school, etc... if they can see that the bullying isnt affecting you, they might get bored of trying.
And please, if you feel like its getting worse, and you feel like you are in danger of these people, then you need to tell someone.
Good luck with everything, wish i could help more.
Take care xxx
2007-01-28 08:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bullying at school is supposed to be 'zero tolerance'...a new rule implemented at all the public schools. telling a teacher that you are concerned about your concentration abilities because of this problem with a bully and their presence in the class will help you to lift some of the burden off your shoulders, put an adult in your corner and make the teacher aware of a problem. they cant help if you dont help yourself. sticking up for yourself is what a bully 'doesnt' want you to do. if you point out a bully they will complain and fuss in their typical way, but how do u expect them to react? with Im sorries? dont worry about how they will deal with it. take care of yourself, worry about yourself, stand up for yourself. peace
2007-01-28 16:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the reason you don't want to tell teachers is, what? Tell me what school you are in and I'll alert the principal that bullying is going on and you won't be involved in ratting of the bullys.
2007-01-28 15:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, you have to tell someone. You can't just keep this to yourself, that's what keeps bullies in business the fact they don't get in trouble for it. Tell the teachers, definitely your parents or anybody that will listen to you that can make a difference. Hang in there and just know that help is on the way.
2007-01-28 16:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by frigginhilarious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullying, especially if it is affecting your schoolwork needs to be reported. Bullying can escalate and affect you in many ways. If you aren't comfortable telling a teacher, tell another trusted adult, (parent, counselor, principal). You need to tell someone to keep yourself safe.
2007-01-28 15:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Shelley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Phil did a great show on teenage bullying and I found it quite interesting.
I would suggest telling your parents and if charges have to be laid than so be it...perhaps your parents could talk to the awful parents of this bully and try to come to some form of reason.
2007-01-28 15:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont avoid telling teachers. I am serious.....you need to tell the councler or get a group of friends to stick up for you.....but what ever you do, dont keep it away from adults....no matter what this bully threatens you for!
2007-01-28 15:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the kids who are bullying you! If you can't then you need to tell someone you trust at your school.
2007-01-28 15:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by snowbody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can go by the bill gate method do really good is school and be better than anyone else get a really good job and run it some day get even richer hire the guy a make him go though hell
2007-01-28 15:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by chad s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can go to the police and get a restraining order and that person will never bother you again.
2007-01-28 15:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋