Keep it real with her beth. Tell her exactlly what you just told us. I dont appreciate you talking about me behind my back then trying to be my friend in my face. Real friends dont do that if your gonna be a friend be a friend if not move around. Its funny the things so called friends do when their jealous of you. Thats all it is jealousy. If I were you i would watch what i say to your so called friend. If shes talking about you behind your back she could be telling the other girl you dont even like all of your business. Keep your guard up because im 24 years old and can honestly say only had 1 good friend in my life. Someone who will take a azz kicking behind someone saying something about me, someone who will always have my back. FRIEND is about as strong a word as LOVE in my opinion. You dont take either to lightly. Not everyone is your friend.
2007-01-28 07:55:31
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answered by meka g 6
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Oh, man, do we work with the same chick? I went to the girl that I don't get along with (Jane) and asked her point blank if the other girl (Cindy) ever said things about me. It turns out that Cindy says bad things to us about each other! She caused a lot of bad feelings between the 2 of us. Jane and I went to our boss and told him what was going on. We told him that Cindy was telling both of us the same lies to each other and causing discord. Now our boss is very understanding, so he only told Cindy that she was not allowed to talk about other workers. she still does it, but now I say, "Whatever" if there is any question as to whether Jane or I did something or said something, we go to each other and talk it out. By the way, Jane and I are over 48 yrs old, and Cindy is 25. Go figure.
2007-01-28 15:50:40
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answered by crzygal 3
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Just speak to her and first find out if she really did talk bad behind your back. Don't begin by accusing her, because she may be innocent, and accusations only lead to defensiveness, and nothing will be solved. Be sure beforehand you know exactly what she said. Then, just ask her if she really did say that. If she admits to you that she did talk behind your back, ask her why. Let her know you feel bad and she's broken a trust.
2007-01-28 15:52:48
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answered by Roche 2
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I have a friend like that too, She will act like my best friend, then turn around and talk so much **** about me behind my back.
Well, first of all her and I hardly ever talk anymore. But look at it like this:
1. She probably likes the attention it brings to her..meaning she is an attention whore.
2. She is not mature yet. Some girls dont fully mature until they are like 30...(<---ok that was a joke, but it seems like it.)
Stop tlaking to her all together. Then when she calls you, tell her to come over by herself. Then talk to her. Say, "It seems like I am more mature than you, and I can't handle babysitting you all the time. You talk **** about me and I am sick of it..." or something like that.
Good Luck!
2007-01-28 15:50:12
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answered by 88776 2
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just tell her you dont like the fact shes talking about you behind your back make sure its just you and her because depending on what type of person she is she might make a scene
2007-01-28 15:51:12
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answered by DIAMOND 2
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Exactly like you said it... tell your friend that you heard they were saying it and weather its true or not you want it to stop if it doesnt then you dont need a friend like that real friends dont talk crap they talk you up!!!!
2007-01-28 15:46:48
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answered by Patricia K 2
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turn that into harsh feelings. try turning it into showing her you know whats up
give her small hints into telling her that you know that shes talking smack. highschool drama leads to dramatice lenghts so try to avoid that completety. or just simply stop talking to her. its easier that way. but if you think you guys are good freidns then try telling her to stop cuz its just annoying how she talks smack about you.
but sometimes you can just lagh at her stupidity. then shes the one whos ganna look dumb in front of everyone because your not bieng effected by her insults. hope this helps :]
2007-01-28 15:49:40
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answered by Im This Guy... 2
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Ignore her. Find someone new to hang with.
real friends do not talk about you that way
Doing anything will be stooping to her level
2007-01-28 15:48:47
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answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6
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Just walk away - anything else you try might be conceived as stooping to her level.
2007-01-28 15:45:53
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answered by bovie 4
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Just tell her how you feel, be blunt, and let her know what you are going to do if she doesnt appologize and stop her behavior...
2007-01-28 15:45:31
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answered by Anonymous
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