Ok here is the situation i have liked this guy for a while a nd were pretty good friends but i am afraid thta if i ask him out and he would say no thta we would no longer be friends wat do i do?
2007-01-28 07:23:56 · 7 answers · asked by Miss you. // ♥ 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think your in the wrong category unless his name is butch.
Love and blessings Don
2007-01-28 07:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him...in as a non pushy way as you can.... just to some very informal thing... not as a "date" with all that implies...if he goes for it during that time you can feel him out for his position on you "relationship"... are you real friends... and is that all or is there "something" waiting to be explored.... if a shared time strains things...may be you are not as good friends as you think... thats one of those things you just have to take the chance...if you are true friends then that will not change if you just get togeather for a bit of closer "sharing" to feel things out...If you try o jump his bod right out of the shute then you could soure a friendship.... keep it cool at first.... if it is to heat up it will do so naturaly....
2007-01-28 15:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by idahomike2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him out that is way to much pressure .
instead have the guy over to your place just as you would invite any friend . then yippi .
wear some xx clothes xx perfume xx hair all that and have some xx drinks then xxxxx the guy . he wont say no then and once he has had a taste he will be like a bear and want more more more so just keep the honey coming and you got him
2007-01-28 15:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont ask him out.the hardest thing to over come is the fine line between freindship and love ,,please listen to me .what you have is beyond love ...you may be on your way to true intemacy and that is almost an impossable feit to accomplish .Beleive me that to ask him out will only define what you have and compress the truth .If it is real then a look is all you need.Feel like freedom is not defined by you but by the powers inside of both of you.It is a very hard thing to accept.start with the eyes
2007-01-28 15:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by deezel09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY would you no longer be friends?
Maybe he's not "into you that way?" or maybe he's just "not ready" for a relationship and you should thank your lucky stars he's not dragging your but into one when he's not ready, just to get into your pants! That would NOT be a friend! Make it clear and up front that if he says no, YOU ARE STILL FRIENDS. That part is your choice, not his. Not many guys dump girls as friends just because they don't want to date, or don't want to date yet!
2007-01-28 15:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in the wrong catagory sweetie. This question should be in either singles and dating or adolescents. But, to answer your question. You shouldn't ask your friend. Because if you do, you might scare him and he might not want to be your friend anymore. The best thing for you to do is find another guy and go from there. I'm single. You want to go with me??
2007-01-28 18:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to try another category
2007-01-28 15:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by twysty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋