sumtimes she is reely fun , but other times she is so mean and talks reely mean stuff about other girls , like " she is soo fat and ugly !!" about this girl who is reely nice !! and then on a school trip i was in a room with her and this mean girl who is her friend , and i am shy so while i was in the bathroom brushing my teeth , they moved my bed away from their beds , and hid my stuff , and that made me cry , but then the next day she was like " oh mi sorry !! ur my best friend !" and i cant take it anymore !! i dont kno what to do !!!
2007-01-28 07:09:40 · 9 answers · asked by paperbag<3princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i had a friend exactly like that 3 years back in the 6th grade. she caused soooo many problems 4 me and was a controlling freak, i cant even begin to tell you.TRUST ME, she is not worth ur time or ur tears. if she was ur best friend 4 real she would not abandon u like that.
get a new friend. when she gets older she will change. dont ever be all over her or too nice to her just so that she wont do that to u again. people like her use sweet people like u and dont put urself in that position. be strong, sis. email me if u need help:)
2007-01-28 07:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Daraweesh rocks!=) aka Shankooty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not a real friend. I've known people like that, and the best thing you can do is to distance yourself from her (slowly at first) and start hanging out with other people and becoming friends with people who're nicer to you and who won't treat you like that.
This girl you're talking about isn't a friend. She's an acquaintance, and I'm willing to bet that you don't feel comfortable around her, which means you probably have never been real friends with her. Meet other people. If you're shy, try connecting with other quiet people. That's how I got out of a destructive friendship very similar to yours, and I'm so much happier and I love life and my new friends so much. It's better to reach outside your personal bubble and make new friends rather than to stay how you are right now with people who you don't feel comfortable with, can't trust, and who don't treat you like a friend.
I hope this helps you.
2007-01-28 07:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by M L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend then tell her that you will not accept her behavior anymore and suggest that you two not hang out anymore.
Find you some new friends, people that are nice and respect others.
2007-01-28 07:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls play pranks on each other. I am sure your things were returned. She knows that you were upset and she apologized. If this treatment continues look for a better friend.
2007-01-28 07:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a psycho!
Stop hanging out with her, she is NOT a nice person....who needs friends like that?
REAL friends would never hurt your feelings!
2007-01-28 07:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like they were only joking with you, don't take everything so personally!
However, you don't want to be one of those mean girls!
2007-01-28 07:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan's Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need friends like that.
2007-01-28 07:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stab her and say oops
2007-01-28 07:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by Bob L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes bipolar, HIT HER AND LAUGH
2007-01-28 07:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by sandman_will 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋