How does it feel when you are being raped?Do you feel a great pain and does your vagina bleed?Do you feel guilty?Do men scare you after that?
2007-01-28 06:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by melanie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well, if you are a virgin when it occurs, yes it does hurt and yes you do have bleeding. When this happened to me, i had been drinking and so i was virtually helpless but yet aware. I had chosen to be at this party, although i was just 14 and the man was in his 20s, so i did feel very much at fault. I think the rape was a horrific thing, but i have tried to make it possitive and help others. I also now have two daughters and i try to explain these types of things to them and how to never get into that position of vulnerabilty themselves. My attacker was never prosecuted and we lived in the same town for years. I was very afraid of him and to be alone but he moved and counseling has helped me out a lot. I am married to a wonderful man who is very understanding and kind to me and knows all about this part of my life. I hope you are not making lite of this serious situation and i hope that if this has happened to you or someone you love i have helped.
2007-01-28 06:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well....honestly i was raped at 16 because i met a guy off the internet...i was stupid and felt really ashamed about it...i had to go to therapy to get over the feeling of guilt. the pain you feel is embarrassment. the therapy i got helped me get over the scared feelings that i did have after it all happened. i mean i didn't trust anyone....i felt anyone could hurt me after that. just be safe and don't go anywhere with anyone you don't really and i mean REALLY know.
2007-01-28 21:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by kaseymay_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i pray you never go through this. its horrible. you feel very empty inside. yes you can bleed sometimes depends on how rough the vile creature is being i refuse to call him a man as he is not. hes a beast. i felt guilty the first two times it happened the third time i was angry and mad that i put my self in that predicament. i should have known better than to spend the night with a guy i barely knew. yes it makes you very scared to be alone with any man specially those who share similarities with the attacker. like hand shape height. counseling works wonders to get through this pain and to realize its not your fault and that this person is sick and needs help good luck in life and i pray you never have to know this pain
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this needs to be discussed more openly to prevent future rape victims i am always available to share my story
2007-01-28 06:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
i felt scared, and it did hurt and you do bleed a little (depends)...after, you fell small, and like no one care about you, like you dont matter, and you are worthless...its a sad thing to go thru...
you feel like maybe you caused it to happen some how...then you convince yourself that you had it comeing
im not afraid of men really, im just more careful and cautious of where i am
i didnt tell anyone for 8 years...only my uncle knew because he was the one doing it (he lived with us on our farm)...its something i would never wish on anyone no matter how much i didint like them...its not fair, and it takes a while to be able to fully trust people...
2007-01-28 11:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it hurts, yes you bleed, and YES you fell guilty, i dont trust much of anybody any more cuz i mean if yur own uncle would do that to you, who wouldnt? my aunt caught my uncle raping me, it horrible u feel so helpless,and like it is yur fault, and u feel like u could have done something to stop it, u feel ashamed that you let this happen to you(i thought it was my fault) yeah rape isnt a really good thing to go thru.
2007-01-28 11:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by koi 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i was raped by my cousin 4 years ago and it did not feel good i felt violated and dirty and angry that someone in my own family would do this to me after a lot of counseling i got over ti and was able to move on with my life now i am happy have a great b/f and expecting my first child my cousin doesn't come around anymore
2007-01-28 06:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
This question has me worried...it sounds like you could be getting information to blame someone, or to do some sort of report for school. If you were raped you would have worded that differently....I do honestly hope you take this question off.
2007-01-28 07:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by someone 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why are you asking this question are you thinking of getting raped? I just think that this is a pointless question. The answers to these questions are pretty obvious.
2007-01-28 06:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 5⤊ 3⤋
That is not an appropriate question to be asking. I don't think anyone wants to talk about their feelings about it.
2007-01-28 06:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 6⤊ 3⤋
my god,
if you had ever been in that situation or even had a sense of how horrid it is you'd never have posted this question....
i suggest you get your answers elsewhere....
2007-01-28 06:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by frost7216 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋