I'm struggling with getting pregnant?

Question

I have been trying for a baby for 4 years i know i can fall on its just that i cant seem to keep them i have several miscarrages i have been under the hospital had blood tests and they all come back fine. My husband also had blood tests and they said the same thing to him.They said that i am still young and that i should just keep trying. I have tried lying with my legs up in the air after sex but that dont work either.so if any one has any advice for me i would really appreciate it.

Answer 1

I think you should stop worrying,
enjoy the love that yourself and your husband have for each other,
and let nature decide

Answer 2

I really think that you should see about being seen at a fertility clinic about your ongoing problems. I am very sorry about your losses and I hope that one day you will have a healthy pregnancy and baby. It might be worthwhile asking your doctor to arrange for you to see a specialist that deals with re-current miscarriages. I cant help but wonder if there may be an underlying problem with your womb, like you say you can fall pregnant but have problems holding on to your maybe so maybe there is problem with the strength of your womb so I would suggest you insist on further investigations. Sometimes doctors dont have answers for everything so I can also suggest that you maybe take a break from trying for a baby just now, your body has been through alot and might just need a rest before it will alow you to fall pregnant and carry a baby full term. Counselling might also help you deal with things emotionally as you have been through a very hard and sad time. Folic acid is very important for woman who are trying for a baby and you should take this up til your 12th wk in pregnancy. I understand that your wanting a baby but stressing about getting pregnant isnt good for you, just try and relax and when the times the right for you it will happen. Good luck

Answer 3

Ask them to give you a scan and see if there is anything that could be stopping you from carring the baby. I know there are tablets to help you when you try to have a baby but not sure what the name is of them. You could also have some injection in your tummy which helps you fall pregnant. I know doctors say you are still young but it does not help you emotionally. Talk to your doctor and ask him loads of questions or even a midwife im sure some one can help you.
All I can say is good luck and I hope you get your dream baby SOON.
xxxx

Answer 4

I had trouble falling pregnant! The doctor made me try for 2 years then put me on climid, i took this one course of tablets and fell the first month! Its different for everyone! Have you try ed the ovulation kits to find your best time! If you are a smoker i would recommend giving up, as smoking is said to lower the chances of conception. Healthy eating . And very low intake of alchol.Maybe ask for a second opinion. I would try and take it easy and try not to stress as this does not help.Good luck, I wish you all the best.

Answer 5

Were you tested by a fertility expert or just a gp. I would have a second opinion, perhaps there are other things you can try like chlomid for example. There are medications out there to help your chances of conceiving. Perhaps you and your husband are not compatible, sometimes being tested individually doesn't solve any answers your uterus may be a hostile environment for your husband's sperm.
Good luck

Answer 6

If you drink, even the occasional drink, stop. If you or your husband smokes smot(u know), stop. What is your blood type and your husbands? That might have something to do with it! If you are o- or ab-, you might have a problem! You might have the Rh disease and your blood might already be senitized! Your body develops antibodies in your system when this happens and fights anything forgien that comes into your body, especially a baby! If the baby doesn't have your blood type especially!

Answer 7

Have you and your hubby given up smoking, drinking and the junk food? Also, exercise is important to get the blood flowing to all your vital organs, which includes those you use to reproduce. Maybe a holiday will help, i have heard of loads of people who have fallen pregnant while on holiday in cornwall. On the medical side of things, has your doctor suggested a fertility tablet called clomid? My friend and her hubby tried to get pregnant for 5 years, and suceeded within 3 months on this pill!

Good luck, and hope all goes well!

Answer 8

my husband and i tried for 2and half years to get pregnant. I know your probably sick of hearing take your time it will happen when it happens i know i was tierd of hearing that. Well i tried reflexology and found it helped. I also found that not going to the toilet for about half an hour to an hour after helps. Try to relax and enjoy every moment of trying i know its hard but it works, Unfortunatley we lost our little girl when i was 6mths due tp premature labour. I hope this helps you keep up the spirits.

Answer 9

Hi, my sister had two miscarriges. both her and her partner were checked out but were fine. The doctor gave her some tablets for the first few months, once she conceived again and she was lucky to carry this bub full term. Im no doctor, but it may be worth asking about.......

Answer 10

Hi, sorry to hear of your misfortune..........if i were you go to another gp and get another opinion. They do say that if you don't conceive within a year you should go to your gp. Maybe your not not ovulating?????

Go and get another opinion, and don't worry too much there are drugs out there that can help and i know someone who took them 5 years to conceive and that was naturally.

Good luck x